Let’s Stop Being Lazy About Communication

by | Relationships

Recently I ended it with a guy I refer to as The F*ckwit for the primary reason that he was an over opinionated, too self-absorbed to see beyond himself F*ckwit, who lived miles away anyway so it was never going to work. Two weeks went by and I received a text message...

Things That Guys Don’t Like

by | Dating

Lord knows they are far from perfect themselves, but just so you stay on the right side of them, this is my guide to the behaviour that will get you canned or at least have him feeling super wary of you! Bitchiness Of course they forget that they’re partial to a...

When Your Ex Meets Someone First

by | Healing the Past

It’s not a competition, it’s not a race, but when we hear that our ex has met someone first after the break up, it can feel like a blow to the solar plexus and have us pondering our own position. Everybody copes with breaking up differently and for some,...

The Givers, Or Over-Givers

by | Boundaries

When it comes to relationships, we talk a lot about how they require ‘give and take’. But do we know what that really means? A friend recently became aware of her pattern of dating guys who do an act of generosity and then she reciprocates by doing several nice things...

Am I Single Because I’m Picky?

by | Dating

I was chatting to a male friend the other day and he stated that the reason so many of us beautiful, successful, intelligent women are single are because we are too picky. “Most of you ladies nowadays have lists and you say you know what you want and then start...