Dealing With His Ex
Most people when they break-up, depart and go their separate ways. However once in a while, you might come across a guy that still has his ex-girlfriend/ex-wife in the picture. There can be several reasons for this—it could be that she’s his baby mama; they work together or live in the same place. Personally I [...]
Does Your Man Have A Secret? - How To Tell If Your Boyfriend is Gay
Girls, there’s a little secret that some of your boyfriends/husbands are hiding. They’re gay. No matter what country you live in, most societies still ostracize anyone who is not strictly heterosexual. This leads to some men making the unfortunate decision to try to do what society wants by getting married to women [...]
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How to Spot a Player (Playa)
We’ve all been there when a guy has a whiff of doggy dog about him and screams Bad Boy, yet it’s clear that not only can some women not read the signs but they don’t do anything with the knowledge. Here are 21 tips to keep you out of a player’s path or to get [...]
How long should it take for a man to call after a first date?
I’m not keen on ‘rules’ but I am wise enough to know that there is a lot of confusion between the sexes about when is the most appropriate time to call.
If a man calls the following day or even the same night of a date, some women disregard him as being too eager and too [...]
The Dicks Before Chicks Phenomenon
When we were little playing in the sandpit, tussling over Barbies and changing our best friend from one hour to the next, it seemed like an innocent world, but as the years went by, we turned into women that have learnt certain behaviours which will put you into one of two camps: The Chicks Before [...]
When Sex Becomes Freakier
“There’s something new in bed that I would like us to try,” your lover broaches one evening. With trepidation you listen to his request, knowing that no matter how open-minded you are, there are some things that you will never, EVER do. What do you do when he wants you to do something in the [...]
Raising Our Standards
Something that I’ll never understand is why women don’t support each other more. Women are all on the same team, right? I could site 500 different examples of women tearing each other down and competing with each other instead of working together, but, as would be expected of me, I’m going to concentrate on how [...]
There Are No Good Guys to Date!
I had a conversation with a friend the other day. She was complaining to me that she wanted a boyfriend but couldn’t find one. “Have you been looking?” I asked.
“Yes, but none of the guys here fit my criteria. They are either of Spanish origins, under-educated (she has a Master’s), non Christian, have a baby, [...]
Want to Air Your Dirty Laundry On a Talkshow?
Endemol and ITV1 are launching a brand new and exciting daytime topical discussion show hosted by Vanessa Feltz. Every day, lots of different subjects will be looked at -
An affair with the boss
Male bunny boilers
Men who think they are god’s gift to women
Odd couples
Celibacy
Dangerous Relationships
Love and lust in later life
Criminal lovers
Teacher-pupil affairs
My holiday romance
I left [...]
