So What is Commitment-Phobia?

by | Relationships

Whilst writing my book The Mr Unavailable Guide (working title), I am writing a lot about the issue of commitment-phobia and it’s stranglehold on relationships. I come across so many women (and men) who engage in such self-destructive behaviour and who clearly...
The No Contact Rule

The No Contact Rule

by | Breakups

The No Contact Rule is the essential guide to breaking up when you can’t or won’t let go, or you’re tired of being treated like a backup plan. When a relationship ends, your interest isn’t returned, or you’re dealing with a commitment-shy...

When He’s Bad in Bed

by | Dating

I think we’d all like to say that every guy we’ve ever slept with was an amazing lover, but the likelihood is that if you’ve slept with a few people, there’s been at least one bad lover. However, remember that being a ‘bad’ lover is...

Guest Post: Women Who Don’t Leave

by | Boundaries

Lately, I have been thanking my lucky stars that I had the guts to walk away from my now ex-husband. He was quite the piece of work in the cheating department – See my post titled ‘I Married a Serial Cheater’. It was the best decision I could have...

Coping With When Your Ex Starts Dating First

by | Healing the Past

The next thing that happens after you break up with someone – this is after the tears, the drama, the denial, the anger, the acceptance, maybe a sneaky shag, more anger, more acceptance and then closure – is moving on. In an ideal world, you’d be the...