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Advice: How do I meet men? Meeting men when you’re conflicted and avoiding a serious relationship

Advice: How do I meet men? Meeting men when you’re conflicted and avoiding a serious relationship

by NATALIE | Dating

‘Lately I’ve been having some doubts about where to meet men because I’m tired of clubs. All the guys there just want a “one night stand”, and most of the time they’re kind of drunk so that’s not cool … I want more maybe...
Advice: Help me understand how my emotionally unavailable man has been treating me

Advice: Help me understand how my emotionally unavailable man has been treating me

by NATALIE | Dating

On Thursday, Astelle wanted to know why her emotionally unavailable man (Mr Unavailable) kept returning her contact when he wasn’t interested. In a follow up to the advice I gave her, Astelle has some more questions 1. Is it Astelle he doesn’t want or he...
Advice: Why did he respond if he’s not interested in me?

Advice: Why did he respond if he’s not interested in me?

by NATALIE | Dating

Astelle asks: I divorced in 2002, (married 18 years) and I’m a single Mom with teenagers. In August 2004, I dated the first guy after my divorce and it lasted until Feb 2005. He’s 50, divorced (was married 25 years) with kids that he has every other...
Advice: Help! I’m a Yo-Yo Girl who feels bad for ending my Boomerang Relationship

Advice: Help! I’m a Yo-Yo Girl who feels bad for ending my Boomerang Relationship

by NATALIE | Breakups

I’ve been reading your blog, and I think I was just in a yo-yo relationship with an emotionally unavailable man. We have been on and off for the past 2.5 years. He broke up with me twice. Once because he didn’t feel like he could give me enough, and the...
Advice: Do men like it when women make the first move? And how much interest should I show?

Advice: Do men like it when women make the first move? And how much interest should I show?

by NATALIE | Dating

Canada asks: Why is it that some men really like it when a girl shows interest in him, and others although flattered by it, seem to hold it against her? Let me explain: I had a friend who asked a guy out by getting his number and sending him a text message inviting...
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