Would you tell your friend that her boyfriend/husband is cheating?
Over the past few weeks I’ve been asked for suggestions on what someone should do when they know that their friend is being cheated on. I have been in this situation a couple of times and have seen it play out many a time with other friends, so despite the fact that I do prefer [...]
Server Problems
Hello Ladies (and guys),
Finally I get to post and apologise for the various problems over the past few days which of course all took place when I had my first little mini weekend away sans the bambino.
Unfortunately my host is useless and the server where Baggage Reclaim (and Bambino Goodies) reside crashed on Thursday and [...]
New book Coming Soon: Get Over Him: How to Lose an Assclown…
Over the past few months I released a series of ebooks that focused on emotionally unavailable men and the women that love them - Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl. There’s still much ground to cover there but I have also realised that there is a whole lotta ground to cover still.
Ladies, you need to get clued up about assclowns which is any man that displays consistent behaviour that demonstrates that he means you no good and is no good for you and you need to learn how to break up and stop wasting away your lives pining for jackasses who are getting on with their own lives whilst messing up yours.
Reader Question: Is control more important for Mr Unavailable than being with you?
Astelle, a regular reader of the site commented yesterday “I still believe that for some of these EUM, control is more important to them than actually being with you, I think due to the narcisstic tendencies.
Could you post something about it?
Looking back, my clown is a narcissist, I have no doubt and me chasing him [...]
The No Contact Rule Really Does Work - Reader Success Story
I’ve always known that No Contact works otherwise I wouldn’t spend so much time writing about it and advising people, but it’s painful, a shock to the emotional system, and brings about so many conflicting feelings, not least because the men that you need to do No Contact with tend to be assclowns that won’t [...]
Guest Post: Don’t Envy The “Other” Women Who End Up With Mr Unavailable. It could be karma…
Annie from The Adventures of Genuine Annie has another insightful post getting us to understand why your Mr Unavailable may choose the next woman…
It is regularly mentioned on this site that if we end up with emotionally unavailable men (E.U.Ms) or what we also call Mr Unavailable’s, it is because we actively choose men that [...]
10 Truths You Need to Accept About Breaking Up: Part 2
Following on from Part 1 yesterday, here on the final 5.
6. You are never going to get all of the answers
This is a female desire more so than a male one but we want an explanation as if expecting that this will satisfy us or even make us feel better and give us closure. Here’s [...]
10 Truths You Need to Accept About Breaking Up: Part 1
1. Break-ups hurt
Take it as a given that you are going to experience some pain. Depending on the length of the relationship, it will at the least be short-term, if not medium-term pain and whilst we all have our different timelines, you’ll know that you’re not dealing with the break-up and the hurt if it [...]
Relationship advice: I ‘think’ my sister is sleeping with my Mr Unavailable
Esther asks: I hold my hand up and admit that I am in love with a Mr Unavailable. I want to end things but I keep being drawn back and recently I have come to suspect that he is sleeping with my sister. I know, f*cked up or what?
My sister has always been ‘the beautiful [...]
Bereavement
Hi Guys,
I have been notably absent over the past couple of weeks due to a bereavement; my grandma passed away. I have been preparing for the funeral which is today as I have to speak at it and spending time with my family.
I will be returning home, tomorrow, Wednesday 10th September, and will respond to [...]
