Shedding Tears for an Assclown

Shedding Tears for an Assclown

by | Healing the Past

I recently spoke with a woman who had broken up with her boyfriend of a year a couple of months ago. He had been cheating on her for pretty much the majority of the relationship and she’d finally caught him out. When we caught up, she was still crying a lot and...

Don’t Indulge in the Blame & Shame Game

by | Healing the Past

A few days ago, I spent about an hour catching up with one of my closest friends who lives overseas. Amongst the many things we have in common, we share a chequered dating past. Between the two of us we managed to date some really atrocious men! We’ve both had...
Morphing: Trying to fit in too much with your man

Morphing: Trying to fit in too much with your man

by | Self

Yesterday I wrote about common ground and how we have to be careful of placing too much emphasis on our belief that we have so much in common with a man, when in reality, if he’s not in the relationship with both feet or has already bolted, you don’t share...