Unlike it’s often owner, penises are a sensitive little (or big) things in more ways than one, and they do require a certain way of handling. Here are a few tips to ensure that his penis stays intact and that he’s loving your technique rather than wincing.
Get into a comfortable position and use your writing hand. Have them lie down on their back and you can lay on your side or if sitting up is your thing, have him sit down whilst you either straddle him and do it, or kneel in front and do it. Basically work with what makes you both comfortable.
Lose the jewellery. If you have something that can catch, stab, dent, chaf, or basically wound and maim a penis, you shouldn’t have it on. To err on the side of caution, remove rings and any bracelets with sharp bits hanging off such as charms.
A firm, but not a strangulated grip (unless he specifically requested it) is normally the safe bet. You’re giving him a handjob, not choking it or punishing him for some reason. If in doubt, ask.
Get into a rhythm. Stop and starting like a sputtering motor will break the mood and his pleasure. Find a comfortable rhythm that he’s enjoying. As a general guideline it should be an up and down motion over the length of his penis, from head right down the shaft. Sometimes due to circumcision and a lack of ‘juice’ it may feel a bit dry to start, but that should ease or at worst, grab some lube. Don’t get Vaseline though it you’re using a condom afterwards.
Once you’ve found your rhythm, you can alter the speed when you’re ready. Depending on what he likes and you can generally gauge this if he doesn’t say it, you should go with the first rhythm for a bit and then once he’s become steadily excited adjust the pace.
They don’t mind a squeeze of the penis whilst moving the hand up and down. This could also be done in rhythm if you’re the type of person that can do that (seemingly not everyone can). Again I said squeeze (apply various pressures) but maybe leave off the strangulation squeeze.
You can touch the balls with your other hand. Apparently we neglect them!
Normally speed up a bit when you can feel that they are ready to cum.
Might be an idea to have a box of tissues handy on the bedside table.
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