Comments on: Agreed Upon Cheating – ‘The New Monogamy’ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/agreed-upon-cheating-the-new-monogomy/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:33:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: orchidae http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/agreed-upon-cheating-the-new-monogomy/comment-page-1/#comment-237528 orchidae Thu, 06 Aug 2009 21:47:02 +0000 #comment-237528 This is the sort of relationship my Married Man has with his wife... And Yes, as far as I can see, it is a recipe for destruction. People over estimate their capacity for being truly loving, honest, and open... And keeping their emotions within boundaries. We are human beings, not robots. Love often leads to sex and vice versa... And yes, many of the partners do not agree on this equally... And that is the person who will most likely be hurt, in the end. The spouse who is going along will be hurt, or the third wheel partner.... Actually, all will be hurt, in the end. This is the sort of relationship my Married Man has with his wife… And Yes, as far as I can see, it is a recipe for destruction. People over estimate their capacity for being truly loving, honest, and open… And keeping their emotions within boundaries.

We are human beings, not robots.

Love often leads to sex and vice versa…

And yes, many of the partners do not agree on this equally… And that is the person who will most likely be hurt, in the end. The spouse who is going along will be hurt, or the third wheel partner….

Actually, all will be hurt, in the end.

]]> By: abril http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/agreed-upon-cheating-the-new-monogomy/comment-page-1/#comment-196316 abril Wed, 29 Oct 2008 22:29:29 +0000 #comment-196316 Prescription for big hurt. Someone WILL be hurt by this arrangement. Most probably it will be one of the women. Women, by our very biology, bond with our sexual partners in a way in which men do not. It's easy to say you'll go along with this sort of arrangement, think of yourself as ''modern'' or whatever. It is entirely another thing to live it. BIG HURT Prescription for big hurt. Someone WILL be hurt by this arrangement. Most probably it will be one of the women. Women, by our very biology, bond with our sexual partners in a way in which men do not. It’s easy to say you’ll go along with this sort of arrangement, think of yourself as ”modern” or whatever. It is entirely another thing to live it. BIG HURT

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