Comments on: AOL asks: Is first date sex wrong? http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:33:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Supernova1973 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-206834 Supernova1973 Fri, 05 Dec 2008 19:49:39 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/#comment-206834 I want something longer than 8 years and I don't believe life long commitments come from having sex on the first date. So far it has been hard to find a decent man who doesn't want to jump in the sack on the first, second, or third date. What the hell happened to dating?? . I personally wish women would view their vaginas as something a little more "divine", than just letting someone they barely know cross the unknown threshold. Most of my girlfriends are sleeping around and can't understand why they can't find a decent man?? HELLO!!!!! If you are just looking for some booty, go ahead, but make sure your partner is of the same thinking, otherwise it gets messy. I want something longer than 8 years and I don’t believe life long commitments come from having sex on the first date. So far it has been hard to find a decent man who doesn’t want to jump in the sack on the first, second, or third date. What the hell happened to dating?? . I personally wish women would view their vaginas as something a little more “divine”, than just letting someone they barely know cross the unknown threshold. Most of my girlfriends are sleeping around and can’t understand why they can’t find a decent man?? HELLO!!!!! If you are just looking for some booty, go ahead, but make sure your partner is of the same thinking, otherwise it gets messy.

]]> By: Reem http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-155763 Reem Fri, 16 May 2008 14:42:16 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/#comment-155763 That's retarded thinking, thankfully women don't have such issues and are more easy going. I personally have sex if I felt like it and if a guy would think that way I'd run away. That’s retarded thinking, thankfully women don’t have such issues and are more easy going. I personally have sex if I felt like it and if a guy would think that way I’d run away.

]]> By: mary http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-56249 mary Thu, 09 Aug 2007 11:45:21 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/#comment-56249 I slept with my ex-husband on the first date, and we lasted eight years. I slept with my last boyfriend on the first date, and we lasted two years. If having sex is killing the relationship, you may have to consider the fact that you might not be all that good at sex. I slept with my ex-husband on the first date, and we lasted eight years. I slept with my last boyfriend on the first date, and we lasted two years. If having sex is killing the relationship, you may have to consider the fact that you might not be all that good at sex.

]]> By: Randomly Sane http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-9154 Randomly Sane Wed, 24 Jan 2007 06:00:21 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/#comment-9154 I agree. But, that's just the way it is...I've gone through questioning and raging against the double standard, but I doubt it's going to change anytime soon. Truth is, for men sex is usually not as important as it is to women. They can have sex with almost anyone as long as they are having a good time and move (unless they're emotionally attached). While women tend to become emotionally attached before, during, and/or after having sex...just different... It's the same reason why guys cheat and can still totally love their significant other...if a woman cheats she's usually emotionally detached from the relationship already... Again, this all conjecture based on talking to guy friends, everyone is different...but I definitely wouldn't sleep with a guy on the first date - I'd keep him guessing and wanting to know more... I agree. But, that’s just the way it is…I’ve gone through questioning and raging against the double standard, but I doubt it’s going to change anytime soon.

Truth is, for men sex is usually not as important as it is to women. They can have sex with almost anyone as long as they are having a good time and move (unless they’re emotionally attached). While women tend to become emotionally attached before, during, and/or after having sex…just different…

It’s the same reason why guys cheat and can still totally love their significant other…if a woman cheats she’s usually emotionally detached from the relationship already…

Again, this all conjecture based on talking to guy friends, everyone is different…but I definitely wouldn’t sleep with a guy on the first date – I’d keep him guessing and wanting to know more…

]]> By: Adeline http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/comment-page-1/#comment-9041 Adeline Mon, 22 Jan 2007 22:16:29 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/aol-asks-is-first-date-sex-wrong/#comment-9041 that is so true. unfortunately we live in a society that praises double standards. being labelled "easy" is like a stigma, remember that scene in Ally McBeal where Richard replied to the blond secretary's question ("Give me one thing you'd tell your mate about me"), "easy". that is so true. unfortunately we live in a society that praises double standards. being labelled “easy” is like a stigma, remember that scene in Ally McBeal where Richard replied to the blond secretary’s question (“Give me one thing you’d tell your mate about me”), “easy”.

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