Comments on: Apologies…The Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl delay http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Sat, 11 Feb 2012 16:33:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Susan http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169923 Susan Sat, 12 Jul 2008 19:29:22 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169923 N, I echo the sentiments above. Hope your bf is doing his share with the babe! And the house, meals, etc. Because that is something we females have an issue with (or our society puts it on us and we often buy into--thinking the babies and the house are our jobs alone.) Don't try to do everything--that's a lie for anyone--females or males. I think until women and men have equality at home then we ain't got equality. That said, your bf might be fabulous and doing his share and more. If that's the case, then be glad, get better by taking good care of yourself! What you're doing is huge and you're launching this on your own--you're a model to all women in that regard. Now give the bambino to her daddy and put in a good DVD and drink lots of fluids! We'll get the book when YOU have it ready and not anytime before then! Lots of healing thoughts are coming your way as you can see. Take care! N,
I echo the sentiments above. Hope your bf is doing his share with the babe! And the house, meals, etc. Because that is something we females have an issue with (or our society puts it on us and we often buy into–thinking the babies and the house are our jobs alone.) Don’t try to do everything–that’s a lie for anyone–females or males. I think until women and men have equality at home then we ain’t got equality. That said, your bf might be fabulous and doing his share and more. If that’s the case, then be glad, get better by taking good care of yourself!
What you’re doing is huge and you’re launching this on your own–you’re a model to all women in that regard. Now give the bambino to her daddy and put in a good DVD and drink lots of fluids! We’ll get the book when YOU have it ready and not anytime before then!
Lots of healing thoughts are coming your way as you can see. Take care!

]]> By: Isabel http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169790 Isabel Sat, 12 Jul 2008 05:54:08 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169790 Whoever said women are weak, certainly didn't know any working mother... Take all the time you need NML and then some more. In the meantime, we'll give the clowns a false sense of security before we hit them with your book (I'm planning on hardcover it! ) Hope you get better soon. Whoever said women are weak, certainly didn’t know any working mother…

Take all the time you need NML and then some more. In the meantime, we’ll give the clowns a false sense of security before we hit them with your book (I’m planning on hardcover it! )

Hope you get better soon.

]]> By: FinallyOverIt http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169700 FinallyOverIt Fri, 11 Jul 2008 15:04:45 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169700 NML, I ditto all of these sentiments--we will wait patiently and look forward to your words of wisdom! Please don't feel guilty, your priority is yourself and your family! Take care. NML, I ditto all of these sentiments–we will wait patiently and look forward to your words of wisdom! Please don’t feel guilty, your priority is yourself and your family! Take care.

]]> By: Loving Annie http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169567 Loving Annie Fri, 11 Jul 2008 01:57:56 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169567 Dear NML, Please take good care of yourself - rest, take a break,and don't worry about us ! Food poisoning hurts and can be exhausting for a week or more -- ((empathy)) Let alone having a baby - it is amazing you have time to post at all, let alone get a book published !!! We are so happy with what you post, and it should be fun for you - not a back-breaker where you feel guilty. You have lots on your plate - it is VERY okay to pace yourself for what feels comfortable. Ohterwise you may burn out and feel resentful. The book will be ready when the book will be ready, and we understand. If another few weeks or a month goes by before it is published, we'll still love what is in it ! We can contain our impatience, and have respect for your needs for healing and recuperation. Your health is the most important thing of all. And then the baby. The rest is a gift to us - of your brain and ability and kindness. When you feel up to it. You are perfect just as you are :) Genuinely, Loving Annie Dear NML,
Please take good care of yourself – rest, take a break,and don’t worry about us !

Food poisoning hurts and can be exhausting for a week or more — ((empathy))
Let alone having a baby – it is amazing you have time to post at all, let alone get a book published !!!

We are so happy with what you post, and it should be fun for you – not a back-breaker where you feel guilty.

You have lots on your plate – it is VERY okay to pace yourself for what feels comfortable. Ohterwise you may burn out and feel resentful.

The book will be ready when the book will be ready, and we understand.

If another few weeks or a month goes by before it is published, we’ll still love what is in it !
We can contain our impatience, and have respect for your needs for healing and recuperation.

Your health is the most important thing of all. And then the baby.
The rest is a gift to us – of your brain and ability and kindness.
When you feel up to it.
You are perfect just as you are :)

Genuinely,
Loving Annie

]]> By: cheekie http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169557 cheekie Fri, 11 Jul 2008 01:15:46 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169557 Ah NML my dear...take care of yourself please!? You KNOW I am a chronic worrier. As for waiting, I am not the most patient chickie on the block, but for you...as long as you need baby!!! xo and lisaq...I actually did a spittake when I read your comment...for true! lol Ah NML my dear…take care of yourself please!?
You KNOW I am a chronic worrier. As for waiting, I am not the most patient
chickie on the block, but for you…as long as you need baby!!!

xo

and lisaq…I actually did a spittake when I read your comment…for true! lol

]]> By: Kaymart http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169556 Kaymart Fri, 11 Jul 2008 01:12:48 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169556 Lisaq...LOLOL....what a HOOT!!!!! So true. At least the book will be something WORTH waiting for!!! LOL NML, you have taught us to take care of ourselves, so please do that for yourself this time, no matter how long it takes. The body has its own timing and can't be rushed! All the best! Lisaq…LOLOL….what a HOOT!!!!! So true. At least the book will be something WORTH waiting for!!! LOL

NML, you have taught us to take care of ourselves, so please do that for yourself this time, no matter how long it takes. The body has its own timing and can’t be rushed! All the best!

]]> By: astelle http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169500 astelle Thu, 10 Jul 2008 18:19:45 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169500 Lisaq, you are too funny. :) At least this time we are not waiting on some a@@clown but a wonderful Lady and a great book. NML, get a lot of rest and take good care of yourself and family. Lisaq, you are too funny. :)

At least this time we are not waiting on some a@@clown but a wonderful Lady and a great book.

NML, get a lot of rest and take good care of yourself and family.

]]> By: Kim http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169480 Kim Thu, 10 Jul 2008 16:26:13 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169480 NML - please take care of urself. Sounds like u r being pulled in many diff directions & need some r&r! Hope u r feelig well soon! NML – please take care of urself. Sounds like u r being pulled in many diff directions & need some r&r! Hope u r feelig well soon!

]]> By: lisaq http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/comment-page-1/#comment-169467 lisaq Thu, 10 Jul 2008 15:03:07 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/apologiesthe-mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-delay/#comment-169467 You just take care of you! Don't worry about us. Fallback girls have waiting down to an art form! ;) You just take care of you! Don’t worry about us. Fallback girls have waiting down to an art form! ;)

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