Guest Post: Are you overthinking it?
Thus, she has begun to examine what it is about her own beliefs about herself that has caused her to attract these men. And that’s all well and good, but when do you get to the point where you are overanalyzing and overthinking it?
…Maybe he is and maybe he’s not, but she has decided he is and wants nothing more to do with him. The point is, though we know our patterns and we become aware of having attracting one kind of man, we have to be careful not to project that onto every man we meet.
Guest post: Don’t engage the Drama Demon
Lisa Q writes…
Just yesterday my good friend decided that the drama that was her relationship had to end. Drama dude not only lived with her without paying rent, he also stole money from her 7-year-old son. He wouldn’t know the truth if it smacked him in the face and has been cheating via phone sex with a girl he met online in another state. She called me in the morning to tell me it was time. I went to help pack his crap and to provide moral support
Now, I have to give the girl credit. She had her stuff lined out. She had a friend coming over with new locks and another friend’s hubby coming to install them. But here was the drama kids. Drama dude was asleep upstairs while we were packing him up and changing locks! Can you say awkward and weird?
Guest post: No More Drama
Lisa Q writes…
Last week, NML posted an article detailing how we become drama seekers in the first place. Maybe we had an emotionally distant father, suffered from second best syndrome, or were raised by a Drama Seeker. I have to tell you, she scared the living crap out of me! I felt as if I [...]
