Comments on: Guest Post: Tips For Avoiding Mr Unavailables on Dating Sites

By: kat

kat — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 16:49:29 +0000

How the hell Have I accepted dating a guy while having an active profile.?!! I had it active myself too, does that justify it? Am I EUW mysefl? I knew this was happening and did or say nothing about it!!. We both checked it almost everyday while dating and being bf/gf at the same time. Has someone been in this situation too before?

By: Judy

Judy — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 10:33:14 +0000

My son did not meet my “dates,” He met two men with whom I had been in exclusive relationships (or at least I thought) for many months. He was not introduced to them after the first or second date or even the first or second month. He was introduced to them after many months when it appeared they were going to be around a while.

By: Astelle

Astelle — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 03:58:55 +0000

Judy, Judy, why would you let your 7 year old son meet your dates??
You need to protect him even if you fall for these guys.
This is way too much Information for a 7 year old!! My son is almost 15 and doesn’t meet any of my dates! Breaks my heart!!

By: Judy

Judy — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 03:39:43 +0000

Out of the mouths of babes…..Just have to share this and this article is the best place…..I am not ready to date, yet, following my breakup with EUM. BUT, I have been shopping…perusing the online sites to see what’s out there. I have dated 2 men from online sites, including EUM. This evening, I was looking and my 7-year old son came in the room. (He met both men, bonded with EUM and knows why neither of the two are in my life anymore. His reaction when he saw me looking: “Momma, don’t look on the computer – all the men on there are liars!”

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By: Ananda

Ananda — Thu, 31 Aug 2006 01:57:13 +0000

great article. peace, ananda

By: Luccia

Luccia — Sun, 30 Jul 2006 13:14:21 +0000

I think the advice about using sites that cost a bit more and are more geared to relationships is very good. Free sites attract those who are everywhere, womanizers and committmentphobes…and I think it’s true to avoid those site who are selling themselves as sites that afford the option of just looking for “hook-ups”…

By: jamwall1

jamwall1 — Wed, 26 Jul 2006 15:19:21 +0000

i rented some children from the “rent-a-kid-for-a-fake-family-photo” place. they totally overcharged me!

By: badgerbob

badgerbob — Wed, 26 Jul 2006 14:25:01 +0000

Wow nym! I’ve been shot at, swung at, swore at, and pissed at, but no one has ever threatened me with crying.

Vixen is such a cool name. Do you still keep in touch with , Prancer, and Blitzen?

By: New York Moments

New York Moments — Wed, 26 Jul 2006 11:00:11 +0000

Hammy: Hmmmm…do you think I could do it if I wrote it while wearing men’s clothing?

Badgerbob: If you stop commenting here I’ll cry.

Vixen: He’s so silly, isn’t he?

By: Vixen

Vixen — Wed, 26 Jul 2006 06:12:37 +0000

Not here—she’s talking about the dating website. LOL

By: badgerbob

badgerbob — Wed, 26 Jul 2006 05:34:05 +0000

“If it appears as if this man is always on the site, as if chatting on the site is his major form of socialising, throw him back in the water.”

Does this mean I can no longer comment here?

By: Hammy

Hammy — Wed, 26 Jul 2006 02:31:13 +0000

Now if only you could write that from the male viewpoint with such in-depth knowledge and succintness then everybody could be saved. That’s pretty insightful NYM.