Breasts On Dates
Let’s not BS each other here. Regardless of what any of us say about how we shouldn’t judge people on their appearances, we do make some sort of judgement or at the very least draw a perception, an opinion about the person’s character. It doesn’t necessarily define the person in question, but through a series of mental imagery and fragments of previous experiences with the same set of appearances or perceptions, our attraction either goes up, starts to level out (hopefully something comes back to lift it) or it freefalls and has a crash landing…..
How a guy perceives your outfit depends on the type of guy that he is. If he’s shallow, it doesn’t matter if you’re a rocket scientist, he will still think certain things about you based on your breasts.
Breasts on dates is a tenuous subject because from the female point of view, breasts are breasts and sometimes you can’t hide the puppies even if you put a black bag over them….But let’s face it, this is the real world and for some reason, men AND women draw perceptions from breasts particularly in regard to how much of the breasts that you can see. I’m not saying it’s right, but if you know what people tend to think about certain breast outfits, you can let your personality do the talking instead of the twins…
Tits out for the lads – As a rule of thumb anything that shows so much of your breasts that you may as well have left the top at home is a bad idea. You aren’t wrapping yourself around a pole; you aren’t going to a sex show – you’re out on a date. There is nothing attractive about letting it all hang out. Put the puppies away and leave a little mystery. As women we often complain about men being shallow, breast obsessed, into porn or women that look like they would give you a good seeing to in the click of the fingers, yet we make a rod for own back by thinking that the rules should change when the outfit is on us.
Avoid, at least on the first few dates:
Anything that even resembles a bikini
Tops slashed down to your naval
Tops with cutouts that expose breast flesh
Tops that pull your breasts tightly in together and give the muffin effect on top
Tops that already make your large breasts look really big
Fact of the matter is, dates are about making impressions and if you want a guy to be interested in you for more than your breasts, don’t make your breasts the focus of attention. Wear clothes that flatter and accentuate your assets, your figure, but that doesn’t mean that just because you think really highly of your breasts that you should put them out on parade.
A lot of breast on show looks good on the beach, not on a date. You can show cleavage, not a whole breast. You can wear a low cut top but there’s no need for there to be a hint of nipple. As a rule of thumb, I try to go with tops that if they hug my figure and my breasts, they shouldn’t be too low cut. If in doubt, put a scarf on to accessorise and dress down the breasts.
Your thoughts?
Carmen May 22nd, 2006, 4:05 pm
I agree. Breasts are wonderful and they should only be “insinuated,” not offered on a tray to everyone! Also, this has a lot to do with the kind of guy we attract. If we go out looking like a streetwalker, what kind of guy do you think we will attract? Probly the kind that talks to your breasts… do you really WANT that type of guy?