He might treat the chaperone/duenna thing as a joke, or he might appreciate the chance to get to meet you without turning off brains to grope bodies. If he isn’t interested unless he has you halfway stripped and groped ñ well, you learned how much to trust his, ìWell, sure, I will respect you in the morning.

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“Lately I’ve been having some doubts about where to meet men because I’m tired of clubs. All the guys there just want a “one night stand”, and most of the time they’re kind of drunk so that’s not cool … I want more maybe not a serious relationship but a guy you can date […]

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Don’t date if you feel cynical, jaded, or bored with dating because you will no doubt draw in people who perpetuate what you already feel and scare off the decent guys.
If you don’t want to spend a lot of time wrecking your head over whether he really likes you, whether he’ll call, or why he […]

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Being cheesy
Talking pure doo doo and being able to get away with it is something that very few people are successful at. I don’t deny that cheesy works for some people, but more often than not, it will backfire on you when you act slicker than an oil slick in Texas. This is one […]

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You still shouldn’t talk about your ex’s! Tempting as it may be to leapfrog to sharing the juicy details of your past relationships, you still don’t know this person and you should be focusing on getting to know them! Remember that whether you like it or not, at this stage of dating, discussing your relationship […]

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My friend Annie Dennison Ph.D over at Smart at Love is discussing the issue of complimenting, or inadvertently insulting a woman. One of her readers approached a woman and complimented her on her ‘hourglass figure’ and ended up with a very pissed off woman snapping at him and slapping him across the face. Laughter aside, […]

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1. Avoid or keep the game playing to a minimum
If you start playing games it is likely that the relationship will become distorted due to manipulated outcomes. Either that or your partner will think you’re petty and childish which is hardly an attractive prospect if someone is trying to consider a long term relationship with […]

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If one topic is bound to generate heat between me and one of my friends then it’s the perennial question of ‘leagues’. Quite simply, she insists they exist and I insist they do not, although in practice I still sometimes think in terms of them. We all do sometimes, don’t we?? How many times have […]

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Dressing for dates is a tricky business because not only can bad choices leave us dreadfully uncomfortable but they also create a first and sometimes lingering impression. From looking like an Oompa Loompa, flashing thong, showing too much breast, wearing ill-fitting clothes, to dodgy bodily hair and VPL’s, here is my rough guide to what […]

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If you’re a woman, then you’ve more than likely been on a night out when a guy has approached you and left you with long memories of your chat up moment, although not for good reasons. If you’re a man and you’ve done any of these things, you should give yourself talking to and take […]

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