Being cheesy
Talking pure doo doo and being able to get away with it is something that very few people are successful at. I don’t deny that cheesy works for some people, but more often than not, it will backfire on you when you act slicker than an oil slick in Texas. This is one [...]

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My friend Annie Dennison Ph.D over at Smart at Love is discussing the issue of complimenting, or inadvertently insulting a woman. One of her readers approached a woman and complimented her on her ‘hourglass figure’ and ended up with a very pissed off woman snapping at him and slapping him across the face. Laughter aside, [...]

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If one topic is bound to generate heat between me and one of my friends then it’s the perennial question of ‘leagues’. Quite simply, she insists they exist and I insist they do not, although in practice I still sometimes think in terms of them. We all do sometimes, don’t we?? How many times have [...]

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If you’re a woman, then you’ve more than likely been on a night out when a guy has approached you and left you with long memories of your chat up moment, although not for good reasons. If you’re a man and you’ve done any of these things, you should give yourself talking to and take [...]

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One of my pet peeves in life, and a consequence of being a woman, is unwanted attention from men. Just in case that sentence becomes misconstrued, let me clarify. I do want and love attention from men. Just not all men. I want attention from men who I find attractive. Not random idiots off the [...]

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1 I cannot emphasise this enough. Women do not like to be tugged, mauled, yanked, poked, or even tripped to get their attention. Saying, ‘Hello beautiful’ will not make her feel any better about almost landing on her face!
2 Come correct. Approach is everything. Just like the mauling, how you speak to a woman makes [...]

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“Would you like to dance?” he asks.
“No thank you” she replies.
“Why not?”
This question is posed by guys when they don’t get the answer that they want to hear when trying to get the attentions of a woman. As a general guide, women don’t want to have to explain why they don’t want to acknowledge, talk [...]

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