You’re on a date. You’re both nervous and you make polite chit chat. Maybe you order a drink and loosen up a little and you’re both tentatively finding out about each other. You start talking about dating/relationships/how you’ve come to be on this date and somehow the conversation slips into the shock infested waters of […]

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Canada asks “Why is it that some men really like it when a girl shows interest in him, and others although flattered by it, seem to hold it against her?
Let me explain: I had a friend who asked a guy out by getting his number and sending him a text message inviting him for coffee. […]

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Over at AskMen, Gary Jackson has some suggestions on what men should keep quiet from their partners. Now I must say that I don’t advocate dishonesty, but I have always said that there is certain information that neither of the sexes is particularly good with coping with. It may not be for the same reasons, […]

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Don’t date if you feel cynical, jaded, or bored with dating because you will no doubt draw in people who perpetuate what you already feel and scare off the decent guys.
If you don’t want to spend a lot of time wrecking your head over whether he really likes you, whether he’ll call, or why he […]

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If I say Demi and Ashton, Tom and Kate, Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas, Calista Flockheart and Harrison Ford, Woody Allen and Soon-Yi Previn, and Madonna and Guy Richie, whilst they have their quirks (don’t get me started on TomKat…) they all have age gap relationships in common. But for us normal folk out there […]

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Being cheesy
Talking pure doo doo and being able to get away with it is something that very few people are successful at. I don’t deny that cheesy works for some people, but more often than not, it will backfire on you when you act slicker than an oil slick in Texas. This is one […]

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Less is more when it comes to your breasts. You can accentuate your cleavage and your breasts without having to put the puppies fully out on show! Aim for a hint of cleavage so that there is some mystery on the date.

Try not to wear your work clothes. However if you do need to go […]

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You still shouldn’t talk about your ex’s! Tempting as it may be to leapfrog to sharing the juicy details of your past relationships, you still don’t know this person and you should be focusing on getting to know them! Remember that whether you like it or not, at this stage of dating, discussing your relationship […]

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My friend Annie Dennison Ph.D over at Smart at Love is discussing the issue of complimenting, or inadvertently insulting a woman. One of her readers approached a woman and complimented her on her ‘hourglass figure’ and ended up with a very pissed off woman snapping at him and slapping him across the face. Laughter aside, […]

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1. Keep it short term
It will get very complex if this drags out for more than a few weeks, especially if they are unaware of the existence of another. The longer you drag it out, the less likely you are to make a decision, and the more dishonest you have to be.
2. Be Honest
It is […]

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