1. Be me, me, me, it’s all about the me
OK, so you’ve got a lot to say and you’re a great person. You’ll be even greater if you zip up a bit more and give him a chance to find it out of his own accord. Talking about yourself incessantly isn’t attractive – you’ll sound [...]

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I know a lot of people that have sex whilst dating and whilst it’s different strokes for different folks, the majority of what I hear from people who do this is that it complicates things and sometimes ruins it. If it’s worked for you, great, don’t bother to read this, but if you think that [...]

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Verbal Diarrhea Syndrome
I’m not asking you to pretend to be somebody that you’re not, but many people don’t seem to know what they should or shouldn’t talk about on early dates, especially the first date. Many daters complain that they have been on dates with people who spent more time talking about their past dates/partners [...]

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Is there a place for games in relationships? Yes if it’s for sex or because you actually don’t want the relationship to succeed. If you actually do want the relationship to work, game-playing will just ensure that you sabotage it.
People tend to play games because they genuinely believe that this is what you need to [...]

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I was on the train yesterday with the boyf who pointed out a woman who had her hand under her boyfriends coat and appeared to be stroking his crotch…. I don’t think that I have intimacy issues or am resentful about people displaying affection, but there are appropriate public displays of affection (PDA) and there [...]

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If you’re not getting yours then you’re not doing it right.
This is all about you and this is the type of sex where you don’t need to worry about who come’s first or his wants. You’re not developing a relationship here – you are supposed to be getting laid good and proper. Obviously don’t go [...]

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If you’re a woman, then you’ve more than likely been on a night out when a guy has approached you and left you with long memories of your chat up moment, although not for good reasons. If you’re a man and you’ve done any of these things, you should give yourself talking to and take [...]

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Things happen and not all marriages work out. Hardly a fact that’s escaped any of us. It’s not a bad thing to be separated but there should be major red flags flying if the guy is habitually separated and shows no signs of actually getting a divorced.
People separate for one of two reasons: Because they [...]

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I have enough experience and the stories of so many others, to mean it when I say ‘Don’t sh*t on your own door step!’ Dating a co-worker, I’ve always firmly believed is what you do when you really, really like someone; not what you do when you’re looking for no strings fun. If you decide [...]

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You’ve decided that you want to set your friend up on a date with someone, which is nice thing to do, but here are some guidelines that should ensure minimal friction if things don’t go according to plan.
1. Don’t exaggerate either person’s qualities. Yes you’re keen to set them up but overplaying how great each [...]

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