Today on day 3 of the 30 Days of Drama Reduction series, Hot Alpha Female shares an empowering call to action…
Ok I have to admit something to you guys, I was having a little trouble of thinking of something to talk to you about and while I was surfing the site, I thought to myself, [...]

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Hot Alpha Female explains why women keep running back to their exes and how instead of placing these guys at the centre of their universes, these women have to make themselves the focal point of their lives by creating their own meaning.

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Over at Advice from a Single Dating Expert, Evan responds to a few readers who want to know why men don’t like strong, successful women. The standout part of this great article was when he discussed the flip side of your characteristics.
“I’m intelligent, I’m direct, I’m successful, yet I can’t seem to find a quality [...]

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Throughout your dating and relationship history, you’ve ended relationships and felt that whatever had happened had galvanised change, only for you to find yourself in a similar or worse situation all over again. But if you have truly experienced self-defining, life galvanising change as a result of a relationship, you have experienced an Epiphany Relationship.
An [...]

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As someone who has had more bad dates and dodgy boyfriends than I care to remember, I used to think that I was having an extended period bad luck where I seemed to mysteriously attract men that were unworthy of my time and energy. A number of incidences and realisations made me realise that I [...]

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If you really are going to be a happy single, you have to stop treating being single as the annoying time that you pass between relationships and embrace it. Rather than focusing on what you lack, focus on what you have: You.
One of the dangers of treating singledom as if it is a great misfortune, [...]

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Self esteem issues are at the heart of a lot of unhappiness for many women and it can be difficult to see your way past the vicious cycle of feeling like you’re just not good enough or you deserve whatever is happening to you. It’s important to have pride and to address the negative beliefs [...]

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Okay, so I realise that there are not a lot of articles about careers on this site, which makes perfect sense. I mean how many of us really want to discuss our possibly pathetic and unhappy jobs when we can talk about men and their innumerable issues, sex, and other totally satisfying and increasingly interesting [...]

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When I was single (and that isn’t such a long time ago!) there was a time when I used to look back at my previous relationships and dalliances and wonder how the hell I managed to always attract certain types of guys that brought certain types of issues. This cycle went on for most of [...]

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Happy New Year to all of the readers of Baggage Reclaim. Thanks for your support of the blog and please keep visiting in 2007.
People will make a lot of noise about new years resolutions and rather than suggest you make some that you’ll no doubt forget by the end of the week, here are a [...]

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