The Big Question: But will he try to get in contact with me?
I am a huge advocate for using the No Contact Rule on men that just seem to have an allergy to breaking up and making a clean break. Even when you don’t have to get medieval on him and cut contact, I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it a million times again, this whole staying in touch and trying to be friends after you’ve broken up is BS - just ask the millions of women out there that are secretly hoping for him to suddenly see them for the great women they are so they can have their fairy tale ending, who actually in effect end up being used for a shag and/or an ego stroke.
But…women, especially Fallback Girls and assclown lovers are obsessed with the big question: Will he try to get in contact with me?
11 Love Reality Checks for the New Year
So it’s good to be back after a nice long break over Christmas and as I looked through comments from various readers, I realised that it’s important to readdress some key points about mentality and attitude, because remember ladies - how we think, feel, and act is often reflected back at us in our relationships!
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Happy New Year
Wishing you all a happy new year and thanks for your support in 2008!
Remember, don’t look back and wonder - look forward, forgive yourself, and live.
I have been catching up on sleep and family life but I will be updating in the next day or so. I hope you’ve all enjoyed the festive season!
lots of [...]
Ten Christmas Survival Tips for the heartbroken, and lovers of asscowns and Mr Unavailable’s - Part Two
Following on from part one of my 10 Christmas survival tips for the heartbroken and assclown and Mr Unavailable lovers, here are my last five tips:
6. Get a life
It is easy to put yourself in park when you are already the type of person who bases their existence on the man in their life. No [...]
Ten Christmas Survival Tips for the heartbroken, and lovers of assclowns and Mr Unavailable’s - Part One
If you’re in a poor relationship or have just cut contact with a Mr Unavailable or an assclown, are heartbroken, or are already feeling the temptation to let the Christmas spirit affect your relationship sensibilities, here are the first five tips to help keep you on the straight and narrow,…or put you back on it.
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Revised Date: How to Lose an Assclown in 90 Days
I have been meaning to post this for ages but I wanted to let you all know that the book, How to Lose An Assclown in 90 Days will be available to buy 12th January 2009. This will give a chance for print copies to be checked etc.
Those who have requested review copies will be [...]
Mixing Up Optimism, Fear, and Denial in your Relationships - Just DO something
Right now, as I type this, there are millions of women out there who have ’settled’ in a poor or so-so relationship. Many of these love assclowns or emotionally unavailable men and have dug their feet in for the long haul because they believe that they love him, so things will change, or he must change. Even worse, he may continue to minimise his input into the relationship, so she will step up her input, rewarding his 10% effort with a spurt of giving, and pleasing, and willing him to recognise her greatness.
But the eternal optimism of Fallback Girls and assclown lovers actually masks FEAR.
Reader Advice: Help! I feel rejected by an assclown and can’t let go
Sasha asks: I have been involved for 4 years with a Mr Unavailable. Recently, I decided to end this relationship because he moved in with another woman he had an on/off relationship with.
Why you should be wary of any man that is reliant on text messaging, email, and instant messenger!
I often get asked what the danger signals are with men and I point out the key ones in my post on red flags (print and keep if you are drawn to assclowns) and how to spot emotionally unavailable men (print out and keep if you tend to be drawn to the emotionally stunted), but [...]
Recognising Things About Yourself In the Man You Profess to Love - Part 2
In a continuation from part 1, I explain what the characters of controllers, liars, manchildren, and assclowns can suggest about your own character and relationship habits:
What does a Controller say about you?
If you’ve found yourself with a guy who is a bully, manipulative, jealous, possessive, you aren’t sure of who you are as an entity [...]
