Posting will resume as normal on Monday It shouldn’t affect you being able to visit and comment The blog will have a bit more of a portal feel but still maintain the sisterhood and intimate feel…. I have had to hide two posts with 1400 comments on them and I don’t want to have to do this again as they are a fantastic contribution to the blog so please stick to the posting guidelines which will go up over the weekend.

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1&1 have botched up an update on the server for this blog and as a result it has been bringing up a series of errors for the past few hours.

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I was shocked to read this headline and what unfolds is a total misrepresentation of me with a lot of inaccuracies and is particularly alarming because I said that I didn’t want to be part of some ‘revenge’ feature’. I took part in the feature to highlight how my experience and sharing my insights about dating and relationships, and specifically emotionally unavailable men has helped thousands of women, and instead, I’ve been summed up as a woman who is getting revenge on her cheating ex fiance!

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I am going to be piloting phone consultations over the next two weeks. The amount of emails and comments I am receiving asking for advice on some pretty difficult subjects that need more time and attention shows that there may be a need for this…but only you guys can let me know if this can [...]

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Does being real seal the deal? Baggage Reclaim contributor Hot Alpha Female reminds us to bring it back to basics with our true selves.
Read the fab review of Mr Unavailable & the Fallback Girl by Lisa Q, plus her revealing self-examinations which include the Assclowns and Douchebag series of posts she is writing as she [...]

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Apologies if you’ve been experiencing problems accessing Baggage Reclaim over the past very long couple of hours. My host 1and1 internet (supposed to be biggest and best in the world!) can only be described as flaky…and annoying… The problem at their end has been resolved…for now…
Thanks
NML
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I’m still in love with TrueHookUpConfessions. The funniest one is a girl meets a guy when he calls her number by accident and discovers that he’s a psycho after a year! Hilarious!
Just in case one orgasm isn’t enough, Vixen’s teaching you all how to have multiple orgasms over at the Bad Girls Guide 
I’m now a [...]

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I had no idea that reading other people’s secret confessions could be so much fun but I have become addicted to True Hook Up Confessions and True Mom Confessions. There are some baaaaad girls out there and I love it. Whatever mischief you’ve been up to, whatever naughty or even evil thoughts you’ve had, there [...]

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Wishing you all a fabulous 2008!
I’m not big on new years resolutions but I do think that the new year represents an opportunity for growth and change. Psychologically you can relegate someone, a dubious relationship, or an issue you’ve been struggling to let go of, to last year. New years tend to bring the promise [...]

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I would like to wish you all a very merry Christmas! Thanks to you all for sharing yet another great year with Baggage Reclaim and I hope that Santa brings you all that you desire.
It wouldn’t be me not to give a word of caution so I will say…
I know it’s Christmas and people get [...]

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