I used to date a guy that was convinced that every single guy was trying to get into my knickers. Every time we went out, he’d end up having a hissy fit if I spent too long talking to one particular guy, they were flirtatious or just happened to look in my direction. It drove [...]

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I was emailed recently by a reader who wanted to know if she should confront The Other Woman after discovering that her husband had been cheating.
“NML, I feel like my entire life has been shattered. I want to speak to this woman. I want to know why she thinks it’s OK to screw someone else’s [...]

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If someone had suggested that I would ever be The Other Woman (TOW), I would have laughed them out of town and told them to F off, but somehow I found myself taking up the role with gusto for 18 months. It was without a doubt the most foolish, damaging thing that I have ever [...]

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I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we have been living together for 8 months. He has a close friend who is a women, and she is divorcing her husband who beat and raped her for 5 years. The problem is my boyfriend stays round her house on a Friday night [...]

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A NYC based magazine ‘The New Monogamy’ is promoting the premise that marriages are becoming more and more open and that agreed upon cheating will stop the marriage from flatlining and either party
straying any further.

“In this view, as long as each spouse “sluts around” (their words, not ours) within the boundaries deemed acceptable by [...]

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Call me childish, but I was howling with laughter reading about this product on Infidelity Today. The world gets stranger every day because there is a sperm testing kit which will enable a guy to test for sperm in the woman’s knickers, which apparently proves that she’s been doing someone else.
“After sexual intercourse women experience [...]

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I frequently hear horror stories about people discovering that their significant other is cheating and whilst it would be all too easy to assume that’s it’s just sex, I am curious as to what forces are at work when we decide to take the plunge and do a spot of double dealing.
Let’s look at some [...]

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