The dating world is a complicated one full of dodgy dates, misconceptions, and pigeon holing galore, and none more so than with the quintessential hard-done-by Mr Nice Guy. But…are ‘Nice Guys’ really that ‘nice’?
Trust me, it’s not because you’re the Nicest Guy On Earth™ why you can’t pick up women – it’s either because you’re [...]

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I’ve been reading a couple of thought provoking posts over at one of my favourite blogs 40s Singleness, in particular a post about women loving jerks being a dating myth, and of course it’s got me thinking.
Women do love jerks, i.e. the perpetual ‘Bad Boy’. Or if we put it in a language that makes [...]

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Mel asks “Why is it that men can totally transform themselves into the ideal partner when they finally fall in love, or meet ‘the one’, especially, if they’ve been bastards to their previous girlfriends?
Do they really keep up their good behaviour throughout their relationship (i.e. live happily ever after scenario)?
Wouldn’t such a man fall into [...]

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I believe that you can pretty much divide men into three camps: Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Mr Unavailable’s, but many women talk about ‘average men’, usually with disdain. Average by its very nature implies middle of the road, nothing special and to many women, it’s not a very attractive prospect. Combined with the fact [...]

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If you’re man is doing any of the following things, it may be time for you to lay down the law. Literally in some cases!
1 He’s used up all of his ‘lifelines’ with your friends and family.
Your friends and family no longer use his name and instead call him ‘Bloody [his name]’; ‘F*cking [his name]’;’That [...]

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If you do a quick straw poll of a group of women and ask them what they prefer, it’s likely to be a Bad Boy. Ask them what they want to marry and it’s likely to be a Nice Guy. Ask them who they pursue and fall in love with, it’s a Bad Boy. Ask [...]

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We’ve all been there when a guy has a whiff of doggy dog about him and screams Bad Boy, yet it’s clear that not only can some women not read the signs but they don’t do anything with the knowledge. Here are 21 tips to keep you out of a player’s path or to get [...]

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I’ve had some lovely quality time to myself for almost a week which has meant that I have got to watch more daytime crap than I have in a long time. Jeremy Kyle, Ricky Lake, This Morning, Oprah, Montell and Judge Judy have all had a bit of my time over the past few days [...]

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It’s a new year, new start, bla, bla, bla, yet what I have been hearing about is the demise of many relationships and when I hear the stories, much as I think the guy is a dickhead, I’m inclined to think the woman needs her head testing. What is becoming very clear is that we [...]

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When we were little girls, playing with our Barbies/Cindy’s, Action Men or even guns….I don’t think any of us looked up with our innocent little eyes and said, “Mummy, when I grow up, I want to go out with a bad boy”, yet oddly enough, many a woman has dedicated herself to the task of [...]

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