“It’s hard to have casual sex without getting emotionally involved,”
Normally I would attribute these words to a woman, but on this occasion, it is to Ben, someone who claims to be amongst a growing number of men who just aren’t into booty calls. Say what?
“He’s Just Not That Into It” in Details Magazine examines this […]

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Recently I’ve been asked by several readers whether a booty call can become so much more. I must say firstly though, if you know that you’re actually a booty call, should you really be asking this question! Anyway…
Booty Call: This is when someone has the ability to flex their dialing finger and call up a […]

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Ah yes, CSBF. It can save your life, save your sanity, allow you to relax, and seem less desperate. But is it healthy? Let’s investigate a little further. First off, for those of you unfamiliar with the term, CSBF= Casual Sex Between Friends, now on with the pro’s/con’s.
Pro’s:
• Sex
• Drunken silly meaningless sex
• Hot drunken […]

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If you’re not getting yours then you’re not doing it right.
This is all about you and this is the type of sex where you don’t need to worry about who come’s first or his wants. You’re not developing a relationship here – you are supposed to be getting laid good and proper. Obviously don’t go […]

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I’m getting asked more questions by readers these days, so I will attempt to answer them publicly on the blog which will also give anyone who thinks they have a suggestion to chime in.
Nobody can build a relationship on just sex. In fact, if a relationship is what you’re looking for then making sex the […]

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One of the most common issues that we hear about is that in a party of two people, one thinks that they are about to be come loves young dream and embark on a relationship and the other, just thinks they’re getting a shag. Just wanting someone for sex is not just a male behaviour […]

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Don’t get caught short by not understanding the rules of the booty call road.
A booty call is a casual arrangement that you have with someone that allows you to flex your dialling finger and say ‘Let’s meet up’ which is code for ‘Come round and do me. NOW’ At some point you both had sex, […]

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One night stands are not something that floats everyone’s boats but there are an increasing number of women that are choosing to have no frills sex but finding that they get a lot of flack from the guys they sleep with or proposition. Now let’s be real here ladies – There is many a woman […]

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This scenario unravelled recently: Two people have been sleeping together for eight years. Yes you did read that right, eight years! It comes to light that he has been seeing someone else and they are going to have their first child. She is ‘heartbroken’ and everyone is outraged on her behalf when she tells her […]

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Definition: A friend who you have a ‘loose’ arrangement with that you will be each others booty call when you both feel horny. It’s no frills sex with someone who knows you but without having the aggravation of an actual ‘relationship’. This can be an often unspoken arrangement which comes into play when you’ve both […]

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