It’s In His Kiss
March 3, 2006 by Pocahantas · 1 Comment
My overactive imagination has been a source of constant irritation for just about as long as I can remember. Between my imagination and my predisposition towards reading romance and sci-fi novels, my views on reality have been slightly skewed to say the very least.
Every relationship that I have had has been in, both real and imagined, has been affected-for better or for worse by my dramatizations, of which my mind has seemingly inexhaustible resources. Reading romance novels can really screw a girl up you know, they just kind of build your hopes up to a level that can never be maintained by a real man, so you are inevitably disappointed, and, if you’re anything like me your life is irrevocably changed.
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Kissing School: The Do’s & Don’t’s
I was surfing through blogs the other day and read about someone’s sloppy kissing experience and immediately had flashbacks to some of my awful experiences, of which almost all of them are from more than five years ago, thank goodness! My worst kissing experience was about eight years ago when a friend of mine pulled a bloke and I ended up being left alone with his mate by default. I wasn’t remotely interested and when he eventually appeared to give in and say goodbye, he tried to go for the kill and snog me. As he breathed on me and shoved his tongue in, in about two seconds flat, I got a weird taste and pushed him off me and said goodbye very quickly. What was wrong? He tasted as if he had gone down south earlier…..
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Kissing Like a Pro
Bear these tips in mind and you will probably get compliments on your mad kissing skills!
Kissing is an art that should be as innate to mankind as breathing. However, I have come across many guys who don’t know the finer aspects of kissing. There have been those who just stick their tongues in my mouth and lay there like a dead fish, those that lick and slobber all on my face, those that bite and leave bruises on my lips and a host of many other bad kissers.
In reality, the finer aspects of kissing is not as complex as one would think. All it takes is some intuition, some finesse and being aware of your partner.
When moving in for that first smooch, make it a gentle exploration. Don’t get all hot and heavy in the first minute, it should just be a light coupling of the mouths, like the first handshake. Butterfly kisses are always good starter kisses, as you both get acclimatized to being so up close and personal.
After that, you move in for the next kiss, and this is when it gets dicey. This is when you either fail or pass the kissing test. You have to notice the way that he/she is kissing you…because people tend to kiss others the way they want to be kissed. For the first few moments, just imitate their technique until you have mastered it well enough that you can add a dash of your own. I have used this on every single guy that I have deemed worthy enough to kiss and they always tell me what a great kisser I am.
Don’t forget to include other areas of the body in your kissing as well, let your hands wander in their hair, earlobes, the nape of the neck, their hands, their elbows and any other sundry spots that you have been itching to run your hands over.
The best kisses that I have had are the ones that I just go at it intuitively, not thinking of my style or technique, not thinking on anything at all…just being in the moment. For once you start thinking, it takes you out of the moment and you won’t be able to fully savor the experience.
So go ahead, take that plunge and kiss whoever you like, knowing full well that you are the best guy/girl that they have ever kissed.
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Kissing Cock Ups
October 17, 2005 by NML · Leave a Comment
Don’t slobber
Babies drool, adults shouldn’t. I remember having a cheeky snog at the disco in my teens and being left with a wet face, but I would hope that I have left behind this type of experience firmly in my teen years. There shouldn’t be saliva on either parties cheeks because unless I am mistaken, you’re supposed to kissing, not eating each others heads.
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