So Your Man is Pressuring You For Anal Sex

Pressuring means different things to different people – trust me, it isn’t just making the request once – But how do you manage the issue of backdoor entry when you don’t want to do it?

Anal sex reminds me of threesomes in that both acts get thrown on the menu on the off chance that someone will say yes, and anal sex does seem to have replaced the threesome as the sex act request of choice. Being pressured to do any type of sexual act is not a pleasant experience, but I can’t imagine how it must feel when someone’s trying to get you to say yes to them going up your ass when you REALLY don’t want it. I imagine you clench up just out of fear!

If you feel pressured to have anal sex, bear the following in mind…

Pressure is when someone is making the request repeatedly, cajoling, manipulating, arguing, wheedling, and generally making you feel like this is something that you HAVE to do or there will be a negative result. It isn’t pressure when he made a polite request and backed off.

Are you pressuring yourself? Sometimes, despite your partner accepting your decline, you’re still anxious about the repercussions of not fulfilling the request. This tends to occur when there may already be insecurities in place and this situation just aggravates it. Or are you a woman that think too much? Wouldn’t it be better to accept your own answer and his reaction and leave it at that? Might as well you have anal sex if you’re imagination is going to run wild!

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Vixen’s Thoughts on: Back Door Entry

It’s happened to most of us, you get in a good sexual groove with a guy, and then out of the blue, he presents you with the all time most annoying sexual request. You cringe, knowing what was to come, and yet knowing that he would ask you anyway. “Can we try anal sex?”

Why in the world do guys like anal sex so much and what’s a girl gonna do when presented with this option?

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Aneros

It was so hard to come up with a title that didn’t include the words ‘bum’ or ‘bummer’ so I just kept it simple. Looking at this thing I felt a touch confused as I wondered if I was looking at some type of magnified organism, but what do you know, it’s a sex toy. For men.
” The Aneros MGX Massager is a patented anal sphincter-driven, prostate-perineum massager. In English: with the Aneros, men can achieve strong continuous, non-ejaculatory, full body orgasms previously unattainable through conventional sexual techniques.”
I didn’t know that men are unable to achieve full body orgasms via conventional sex methods until I read about this product, so if you buy this for your guy, you can give him a ‘Dream Orgasm’. Personally I can’t visualise this being used, but then I can barely visualise a boyfriend, so what the hell do I know? And yes, the pictured Aneros does go up his bum (or anus as the technical people refer to it as).
This is a bestseller (I’m not surprised with the promises of ‘Dream Orgasm’s and is available from Lovehoney for £29.49 or £51.05, where you can also find out more ‘in-depth’ information. May all of his Christmas’ come together in one go…..

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Anal Sex: Shhhh, Bum’s The Word

I wrote on my blog about my discovery of a frightening amount of pay-per-view sex channels which have become available because I have upgraded my TV package. The hilarity kicked in when I clicked on the ‘Anal’ section and was
confronted with the first title and description: “ Addicted to Butt - Four scenes featuring girls that just love to take hard c*ck.” (Note that I realise that I am childish for still loving toilet humour!)

Anyway, it has become clear that my female friends and I don’t know one woman between us that claims to like anal sex. Most women we know have tried it, but it seems that none of them were keen on going for second helpings!

Talk to guys though and they say that women (or should I say the ones that they have been involved with) love anal sex! Now it strikes me that there is a contradiction here. Are the guys lying their arses off, or is it the women? Has anal sex become the new ‘number of sexual partners’ or ‘cum swallowing’ conundrum? Both seem to cause some people to lie and minimalise the answer. We’ll admit to doing these, but we won’t admit to doing them a lot, or liking them. Twenty sexual partners becomes ten. Ten anal sex sessions becomes just the once. Coming to think of it, every woman I know has tried it ‘once’…
I conjured up some strange mental images when one particular commenter mentioned women liking to “pop their fingers” in his bum. A quick poll amongst my male friends and they all confirmed this. And here was me thinking that most women have manicured, sharp nails….

So tell me, is there a woman out there who does like anal sex? Or do women just do it once? And if they aren’t favouring the ‘backdoor’ route for themselves, are there women out there that ‘pop their fingers’ in bums?

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