Comments on: Coping With and Moving On After a Break Up Commandment 7: Thou shalt forgive…but thou shouldn’t forget..but don’t cling… http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coping-with-and-moving-on-after-a-break-up-commandment-7-thou-shalt-forgivebut-thou-shouldnt-forgetbut-dont-cling/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Fri, 12 Mar 2010 03:57:48 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Lisasquared http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coping-with-and-moving-on-after-a-break-up-commandment-7-thou-shalt-forgivebut-thou-shouldnt-forgetbut-dont-cling/comment-page-1/#comment-242655 Lisasquared Fri, 25 Sep 2009 10:35:30 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coping-with-and-moving-on-after-a-break-up-commandment-7-thou-shalt-forgivebut-thou-shouldnt-forgetbut-dont-cling/#comment-242655 This is all well and good, but what happens when you've been with someone for years (10) and he ends it. How do you go on seeing the same friends etc. That is the part I'm having difficulty dealing with..being in the same room as him, as him and her. This is all well and good, but what happens when you’ve been with someone for years (10) and he ends it. How do you go on seeing the same friends etc. That is the part I’m having difficulty dealing with..being in the same room as him, as him and her.

]]> By: lisaq http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coping-with-and-moving-on-after-a-break-up-commandment-7-thou-shalt-forgivebut-thou-shouldnt-forgetbut-dont-cling/comment-page-1/#comment-159832 lisaq Thu, 05 Jun 2008 13:00:39 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coping-with-and-moving-on-after-a-break-up-commandment-7-thou-shalt-forgivebut-thou-shouldnt-forgetbut-dont-cling/#comment-159832 NML, sometimes I feel like you are the only voice of reason in my otherwise insane world. Forgiving myself, and not, has been one of the things I have struggled with since my divorce. Not just for the divorce but for other events that happened during that time. There are things I did that I have really struggled with and have led me to believe that I have deserved every assclown I have come in contact with since. This, of course, gets in the way of loving myself despite my best attempts. I've made great strides in self forgiveness, but I realize that I have a hella long way to go. I can think of about 4 unsent letters I need to write. Thanks girl! You have been so helpful in my journey! NML, sometimes I feel like you are the only voice of reason in my otherwise insane world. Forgiving myself, and not, has been one of the things I have struggled with since my divorce. Not just for the divorce but for other events that happened during that time. There are things I did that I have really struggled with and have led me to believe that I have deserved every assclown I have come in contact with since. This, of course, gets in the way of loving myself despite my best attempts.

I’ve made great strides in self forgiveness, but I realize that I have a hella long way to go. I can think of about 4 unsent letters I need to write. Thanks girl! You have been so helpful in my journey!

]]> By: Terry http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coping-with-and-moving-on-after-a-break-up-commandment-7-thou-shalt-forgivebut-thou-shouldnt-forgetbut-dont-cling/comment-page-1/#comment-159808 Terry Thu, 05 Jun 2008 08:33:00 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coping-with-and-moving-on-after-a-break-up-commandment-7-thou-shalt-forgivebut-thou-shouldnt-forgetbut-dont-cling/#comment-159808 Wow! I had to swallow a few times reading this because I felt inexplicably close to tears. I DO feel angry and I am storing up a whole lot a stuff but it's the first time I've really admitted it. I'm angry at me, I;m angry at him, I'm angry with my father, and I'm even still angry with some exes. This sh*t is killing me but everyone else is living la vida loca! I realise just by reading this that most of these things don't really matter and what I need to do is stop hating and get on with my life. Thank you. I'm starting to forgive me. Wow! I had to swallow a few times reading this because I felt inexplicably close to tears. I DO feel angry and I am storing up a whole lot a stuff but it’s the first time I’ve really admitted it. I’m angry at me, I;m angry at him, I’m angry with my father, and I’m even still angry with some exes. This sh*t is killing me but everyone else is living la vida loca! I realise just by reading this that most of these things don’t really matter and what I need to do is stop hating and get on with my life. Thank you. I’m starting to forgive me.

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