Comments on: Don’t Date Her/Him – More Like Stop Bitching

By: BW

BW — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 23:48:09 +0000

I know there is a danger that the site will be abused and used as a bashing board. However, there are some men out there that need to be revealed so other women will not be taken in by them, like I was. I emotionally, fincially, and physically supported a 52 yr old man, and his grown kids for 9 1/2 months, to find out he never intended to get back on his own two feet, was living a double life with young girls just at or above legal age, and using my money to contact and play with these girls.

By: siio

siio — Sat, 29 Mar 2008 15:25:12 +0000

This is a paranoid world tighter than the a$$ of an ant. I swear if a man makes a move after a date and the girl decides a bit more dinner is required and he decides to cuss she becomes a “almost raped” victim and could have the guy fired/jailed if she so pleases.

When everyone thinks everything different is something sinister trying to destroy them connects to everyone else (everyone is running on their own parrellel line so you are just not going to like anything you see)..anyways that really concentrates the smell of all this.

By: Nada

Nada — Wed, 22 Aug 2007 10:18:03 +0000

I agree. Maybe there is a point to these sites for people who are positively dangerous, but if it is so bad then it is a police matter. The problem is that people tend to believe what they read on the internet and once it’s published it is very hard to undo. Better to move on.

By: Brad K.

Brad K. — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 16:52:10 +0000

The thought that comes to my mind is job interviews. Also the sex offender brouhaha on Facebook and other sites.

When either the lady posting or the target cheater get Googled by a prospective employer, current employer, family member, or attorney (he may have lied about his profession, too!) – suddenly anything not literally true, or provable in court, could get someone in trouble. The target or the one posting can suffer if their employer doubts their integrity – or is concerned about hysterical derisions. If you will bad mouth a date, what won’t you say about a supervisor or company that you feel irritated with some day?

And by failing the Thumper test (“If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anyhing at all.”) you may drive away that prospect that might have been interested in a long term relationship. You showed yourself vindictive.

At least finish the grieving process, the anger, the denial, the acceptance, before reporting to the police or posting about him.