Less is more when it comes to your breasts. You can accentuate your cleavage and your breasts without having to put the puppies fully out on show! Aim for a hint of cleavage so that there is some mystery on the date.
Try not to wear your work clothes. However if you do need to go straight from work, jazz up the outfit for example by losing the suit jacket, putting on going out top, wearing a wraparound dress (they are great day or night), putting on a stylish cardigan or blazer instead of a suit jacket, or even just changing your shoes or hairstyle.
Make an effort. Never turn up looking like something that the cat dragged in. Don’t turn up in DIY clothes, your tracksuit (a lot of men are very funny about tracksuits as going out outfits on women!), your slobbing out gear, or basically anything that screams ‘I just couldn’t be arsed to make the effort…’
If you’re wearing clothes that expose armpits, legs, or anywhere else hairy, be sure to have wax, shave, or get out the hair removal cream.
Use deodorant and perfume, but there is no need for them to be able to smell your perfume a thousand miles away. Bad hygiene is a major no-no and unnecessary. B.O. and any other dubious odours don’t belong on dates.
Likewise wear clean clothes, not clothes that smell like they’ve absorbed the smell of every meal that you’ve eaten or cooked.
Avoid looking like an Oompa Loompa with your fake tan or foundation. The key is ‘natural’ and ‘subtle’ not ‘day glo’.
Likewise try not to go Halloween with the make-up. Your make-up is not a mask and rather than painting your face, again aim for subtle and natural. You don’t need to put on nightclub make up if you’re just going out for dinner.
Wear clothes that flatter and fit you. Avoid looking like an overstuffed sausage with lumps and bumps that you’ve created and accentuated through poor clothing choices. Remember that if you wear too tight clothes, you could end up with a wardrobe malfunction that could be very embarrassing.
When wearing jeans go for straight leg, skinny, or boot-cut but avoid baggy as it can make you look too casual. The key is that whatever the jeans, find a pair that flatters you. Always wear jeans that flatter your bum, create a bum, lengthen your leg (not shorten it), and flatter your hips and waist, even giving the illusion of one.
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1 curlygirl // Jun 29, 2007 at 8:45 pm
agree. it’s important to be sexy but classy for dates!
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