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Thu, 20 Nov 2008 09:52:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 en http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-am-i-addicted-to-my-lying-cheating-ex-mr-unavailable/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-am-i-addicted-to-my-lying-cheating-ex-mr-unavailable/#comments Thu, 20 Nov 2008 09:49:59 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-am-i-addicted-to-my-lying-cheating-ex-mr-unavailable/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-am-i-addicted-to-my-lying-cheating-ex-mr-unavailable/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-help-im-not-part-of-his-life-plan-and-he-wants-to-move-out-and-sofa-surf/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-help-im-not-part-of-his-life-plan-and-he-wants-to-move-out-and-sofa-surf/#comments Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:17:59 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-help-im-not-part-of-his-life-plan-and-he-wants-to-move-out-and-sofa-surf/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-help-im-not-part-of-his-life-plan-and-he-wants-to-move-out-and-sofa-surf/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/5th-december-how-to-lose-an-assclown-in-90-days/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/5th-december-how-to-lose-an-assclown-in-90-days/#comments Wed, 19 Nov 2008 16:16:58 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/5th-december-how-to-lose-an-assclown-in-90-days/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/5th-december-how-to-lose-an-assclown-in-90-days/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/reader-question-why-cant-mr-unavailables-either-let-go-of-their-ex-or-return-to-them/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/reader-question-why-cant-mr-unavailables-either-let-go-of-their-ex-or-return-to-them/#comments Tue, 18 Nov 2008 13:01:47 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1589 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/reader-question-why-cant-mr-unavailables-either-let-go-of-their-ex-or-return-to-them/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/reader-question-is-it-normal-to-want-revenge-on-my-married-assclown/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/reader-question-is-it-normal-to-want-revenge-on-my-married-assclown/#comments Mon, 17 Nov 2008 14:30:24 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1579 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/reader-question-is-it-normal-to-want-revenge-on-my-married-assclown/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/the-backlog-of-emails-has-been-cleared/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/the-backlog-of-emails-has-been-cleared/#comments Mon, 17 Nov 2008 13:50:41 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1576 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/the-backlog-of-emails-has-been-cleared/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-3/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-3/#comments Fri, 14 Nov 2008 17:23:50 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1568 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-3/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-should-i-cut-contact-try-out-a-new-guy-or-be-alone/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-should-i-cut-contact-try-out-a-new-guy-or-be-alone/#comments Thu, 13 Nov 2008 18:18:24 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1563 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/relationship-advice-should-i-cut-contact-try-out-a-new-guy-or-be-alone/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coulda-woulda-shoulda-could-my-relationship-have-been-different/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coulda-woulda-shoulda-could-my-relationship-have-been-different/#comments Wed, 12 Nov 2008 16:04:27 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1556 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/coulda-woulda-shoulda-could-my-relationship-have-been-different/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-2/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-2/#comments Mon, 10 Nov 2008 18:28:31 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1544 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-2/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-1/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-1/#comments Sat, 08 Nov 2008 17:39:13 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1537 Wikipedia: "Passive-aggressive behavior refers to passive, sometimes obstructionist resistance to following through with expectations in interpersonal or occupational situations. It can manifest itself as learned helplessness, procrastination, stubbornness, resentment, sullenness, or deliberate/repeated failure to accomplish requested tasks for which one is (often explicitly) responsible. It is a defense mechanism, and (more often than not) only partly conscious. For example, suppose someone does not wish to attend a party. A passive-aggressive response in that situation might involve taking so long to get ready that the party is nearly over by the time they arrive." Now I receive quite a few emails that describe the guy as passive aggressive but actually, in struggling relationships that drag on, this is behaviour that both parties can be guilty of, but for part 1 of this post, I am looking at his behaviour.]]> http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/passive-aggression-in-relationships-part-1/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/hes-with-someone-else-why-her-and-not-me/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/hes-with-someone-else-why-her-and-not-me/#comments Fri, 07 Nov 2008 18:27:37 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1528 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/hes-with-someone-else-why-her-and-not-me/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/if-he-doesnt-end-the-relationship-why-cant-you-end-the-relationship/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/if-he-doesnt-end-the-relationship-why-cant-you-end-the-relationship/#comments Wed, 05 Nov 2008 14:03:04 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1519 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/if-he-doesnt-end-the-relationship-why-cant-you-end-the-relationship/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/advice-do-i-make-men-nervous-or-are-these-men-just-assclowns/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/advice-do-i-make-men-nervous-or-are-these-men-just-assclowns/#comments Tue, 04 Nov 2008 12:00:28 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1509 Anna asks: I recently saw an ex and he said he was nervous around me! I asked why and got the you're gorgeous and it is tough to be around line. So later on in the evening we got to talking and he seriously said he was scared of me. But, he wanted to get it on, which made no sense if he is scared of me. Anyway I think I could be scary to some people since I am into extreme sports, educated, and tend to do a lot of things on my own. I am not afraid of much, but I don't do drugs, vegetarian, buddhist, and rarely drink. What is so scary about that??? ]]> http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/advice-do-i-make-men-nervous-or-are-these-men-just-assclowns/feed/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/advice-help-im-the-other-woman-to-the-other-woman-does-this-sound-like-a-man-in-love/ http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/advice-help-im-the-other-woman-to-the-other-woman-does-this-sound-like-a-man-in-love/#comments Mon, 03 Nov 2008 14:59:59 +0000 NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1505 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/advice-help-im-the-other-woman-to-the-other-woman-does-this-sound-like-a-man-in-love/feed/