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		<title>Getting Your Wake Up Call: Relationship Epiphanies</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-your-wake-up-call-relationship-epiphanies/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-your-wake-up-call-relationship-epiphanies/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 00:19:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breaking Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[authentic self]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Breaking Up/Thinking About It]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Wellbeing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ending relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fallback Girls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[investing in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[learning from relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[learning to trust in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loving yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[A few years back I wrote about when you have an epiphany relationship:
&#8220;a relationship that caused you to have a sudden clarity and insight into that particular relationship, yourself, your actions, and potentially all of your relationships. There is a defining moment within this relationship where everything changed for you and suddenly you couldn&#8217;t escape [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is He Going to Leave His Wife/Girlfriend For Me? Part Two</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/is-he-going-to-leave-his-wifegirlfriend-for-me-part-two/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/is-he-going-to-leave-his-wifegirlfriend-for-me-part-two/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 12:37:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Cheating/Infidelity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[and]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[authentic self]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chemistry in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compatibility in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional investment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional laziness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Wellbeing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[faith in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fallback Girls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[father daughter relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[interpersonal relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[investing in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[learning to trust in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loving yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[low self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[will he leave his wife]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday in part one, I explained why wondering or questioning whether a man is going to leave his wife or girlfriend for you can put you in a precarious position because it means that the way that the &#8216;affair&#8217; is playing out is not giving you enough confidence to believe that he will leave her [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is He Going To Leave His Wife/Girlfriend For Me? Part One</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/is-he-going-to-leave-her-for-me-part-one/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/is-he-going-to-leave-her-for-me-part-one/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 23:40:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Being The Other Woman]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Cheating/Infidelity]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attraction]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betting on potential]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[cheating]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional investment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Fallback Girls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[he lied to me]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[investing in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[the cheater]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unhealthy relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Right now, there are thousands of &#8216;ladies in waiting&#8217; in relationships; women who are willing, waiting, and hoping that the guy they&#8217;re with, will leave their girlfriend or wife. &#8216;Is he going to leave her for me?&#8217;;'When is he going to leave her?&#8217; and &#8216;Why hasn&#8217;t he left her yet?&#8217; are just some of the [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>7</slash:comments>
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		<title>Guest Post: A Journey in an Honest Conversation from Pain to Self-Love</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/guest-post-a-journey-from-pain-to-self-love/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/guest-post-a-journey-from-pain-to-self-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 17:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[and]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[authentic self]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chemistry in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compatibility in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional investment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional laziness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Wellbeing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[faith in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Fallback Girls]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[father daughter relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[interpersonal relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[investing in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[learning to trust in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[loving yourself]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[low self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Personal Development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A couple of years ago, I received an email from Baggage Reclaim reader RES thanking me for writing this site, and letting me know that in spite of the painful revelations that resulted from reading, she was ready to take a break from relationships (something I recommend to help you gain perspective as distance from [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>24</slash:comments>
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		<title>Lovenomics: Managing Your Desire to Be the Exception in Relationships &#8211; Part Two</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/lovenomics-managing-your-desire-to-be-the-exception-in-relationships-part-two/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/lovenomics-managing-your-desire-to-be-the-exception-in-relationships-part-two/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 12:00:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betting on potential]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional investment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exception]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fairy tales]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[healthy relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[interpersonal relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[investing in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lovenomics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[managing expectations in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/lovenomics-managing-your-desire-to-be-the-exception-in-relationships-part-two/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday in part one, I explained about how we often base our thinking about what&#8217;s likely to happen in our relationships based on exceptions and anomalies instead of the reality. Part of this stems from what can be a tendency to dine off illusions in poor relationships, but it also largely stems from the fact [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>21</slash:comments>
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		<title>Lovenomics: Managing Your Desire to Be the Exception in Relationships &#8211; Part One</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/lovenomics-managing-your-desire-to-be-the-exception-in-relationships-part-one/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/lovenomics-managing-your-desire-to-be-the-exception-in-relationships-part-one/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 12:42:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[bad relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betting on potential]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional investment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[exception]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[fairy tales]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[healthy relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[interpersonal relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[investing in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lovenomics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[managing expectations in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/lovenomics-managing-your-desire-to-be-the-exception-in-relationships-part-one/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I&#8216;ve finally gotten around to reading Superfreakonomics, the follow up to the bestselling Freakonomics. Pitched as a &#8220;rogue economist explores the hidden side of everything&#8221;, authors Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner are deliciously clever and funny, exploring everything from why sumo wrestlers and teachers are the most likely to cheat, to the economics [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>27</slash:comments>
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		<title>Are you hanging with a solo thinker or a team player in your relationships?</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/are-you-hanging-with-a-solo-thinker-or-a-team-player-in-your-relationships/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/are-you-hanging-with-a-solo-thinker-or-a-team-player-in-your-relationships/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 23:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[and]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being happy in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[betting on potential]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[compatibility in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional laziness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Wellbeing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[
One of the things that I consistently say about healthy, positive relationships is that it takes two people with both of their feet in it to make it work. When one person is a solo thinker whilst the other person is thinking as a team and trying to make up for the other person not [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>27</slash:comments>
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		<title>Last Chance: Bundle Offer for Mr Unavailable &amp; The Fallback Girl &amp; The No Contact Rule ebooks</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/last-chance-bundle-offer-for-mr-unavailable-the-fallback-girl-the-no-contact-rule-ebooks/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/last-chance-bundle-offer-for-mr-unavailable-the-fallback-girl-the-no-contact-rule-ebooks/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 19:23:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[News]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/last-chance-bundle-offer-for-mr-unavailable-the-fallback-girl-the-no-contact-rule-ebooks/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[

  

Next week finally signals the launch of my new ebook How To Lose An Assclown in 90 Days as well as a few other new things here on Baggage Reclaim and as a result, the bundle offer where you could save when you purchased my ebooks Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl and [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
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		<title>Having An Honest Conversation with Yourself for Better Relationships</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/having-an-honest-conversation-with-yourself-for-better-relationships/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/having-an-honest-conversation-with-yourself-for-better-relationships/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 23:46:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[authentic self]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being happy in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unhealthy relationships]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/having-an-honest-conversation-with-yourself-for-better-relationships/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Whilst thankfully I don&#8217;t spend my time on the mean streets of Unavailable Town and Assclownville anymore, I have to regularly give myself a boot up the bum to ensure that I&#8217;m real with myself about other aspects of my life and that predominantly tends to be about work and dealing with stuff like family. [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>56</slash:comments>
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		<title>When Someone Keeps Pressing the &#8216;Reset&#8217; Button on their Behaviour in Relationships</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/when-someone-keeps-presses-the-reset-button-on-your-relationship/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/when-someone-keeps-presses-the-reset-button-on-your-relationship/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 23:56:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Breaking Up]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[breaking up getting over an ex]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Control Freaks]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Wellbeing]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotionally unavailable men]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ending relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[failed relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[love]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lying in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mr Unavailable/Emotionally Unavailable]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[should I take him back?]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Recently a reader emailed me about his ex girlfriend.
&#8220;I&#8217;m at a total loss. She just expects to swoop back into my life and pick up from where we left off. If I so much as mention the problems which include her starting something with a guy at the office as well as a complex web [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>47</slash:comments>
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		<title>Getting Out of Stuck: What are you doing to help bring love into your life?</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-out-of-stuck-what-are-you-doing-to-help-bring-love-into-your-life/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-out-of-stuck-what-are-you-doing-to-help-bring-love-into-your-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2010 17:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Love and Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Single Life]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclown]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assclowns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[authentic self]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[being happy in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[boundaries in relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Commitment]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional laziness]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I read a lot of emails, comments, posting on the forum etc and one of the things that becomes clear is that until we &#8216;get&#8217; it, we&#8217;re excuses driven people, prone to self-blame, dramatisation, and lamenting why things haven&#8217;t gone our way. When we have our own personal epiphany and connect the dots about our [...]]]></description>
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		<title>12 Empowering Thoughts for Valentine&#8217;s Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2010 22:22:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s Valentine&#8217;s Day and whilst some of you are enjoying yourselves, either in your own company, hanging with friends and family, or maybe with a new &#8217;significant other&#8217;, some of you will be in slushy mushy hearts hell, reminiscing about V-Day&#8217;s gone by where you were with the object of your thoughts (even if it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Terms &amp; Conditions Apply &#8211; Reading the &#8216;Small Print&#8217; in Dubious Relationships</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/terms-conditions-apply-reading-the-small-print-in-dubious-relationships/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/terms-conditions-apply-reading-the-small-print-in-dubious-relationships/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 23:43:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Emotional Unavailability]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Last night I was speaking with a reader who has really been given the emotional beatdown by the guy that she&#8217;s been involved with. She couldn&#8217;t fathom how she&#8217;s got to the point where she&#8217;s involved with a guy who&#8217;s treating her like a casual sex companion who he can disrespect at will and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Should I Give Him A Second Chance? Or a 3rd, 4th, 20th&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/should-i-give-him-a-second-chance-or-a-3rd-4th-20th/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/should-i-give-him-a-second-chance-or-a-3rd-4th-20th/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 23:45:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[
Ah, Valentine&#8217;s Day is approaching and much like Christmas, exes will be potentially creeping out of the woodworks. Maybe you&#8217;ve been broken up for a while, watched him waltz off with someone else and have been wondering, &#8216;Why her and not me?&#8216; Or maybe he&#8217;s not with someone else (or at least not that you [...]]]></description>
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		<title>So&#8230;What is he thinking when he keeps making contact or tries to get back together?</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/so-what-is-he-thinking-when-he-keeps-making-contact-or-tries-to-get-back-together/</link>
		<comments>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/so-what-is-he-thinking-when-he-keeps-making-contact-or-tries-to-get-back-together/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 17:00:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>NML</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In another excerpt from my ebook The No Contact Rule, I highlight the age old activity of wondering what he&#8217;s thinking. Between adding more meaning to his behaviour and judging things based on your own actions or on those of &#8216;normal&#8217; people, it&#8217;s easy to expend a lot of mental energy and particularly when you&#8217;re [...]]]></description>
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