http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-to-a-happier-and-more-self-fulfilled-you-learn-to-say-%e2%80%98no%e2%80%99/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Sat, 11 Feb 2012 20:27:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-to-a-happier-and-more-self-fulfilled-you-learn-to-say-%e2%80%98no%e2%80%99/comment-page-1/#comment-3896 Randomly Sane Thu, 26 Oct 2006 16:24:53 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-to-a-happier-and-more-self-fulfilled-you-learn-to-say-%e2%80%98no%e2%80%99/#comment-3896 This was one of the hardest lessons for me to learn. I've been a pleaser for so many years. But now that I just say no things are so much easier. I don't have that built up resentment so common in the land of "passive aggresiva".... Great article. This was one of the hardest lessons for me to learn. I’ve been a pleaser for so many years. But now that I just say no things are so much easier. I don’t have that built up resentment so common in the land of “passive aggresiva”…. Great article.

]]> http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-to-a-happier-and-more-self-fulfilled-you-learn-to-say-%e2%80%98no%e2%80%99/comment-page-1/#comment-3685 Vixen Tue, 17 Oct 2006 11:57:57 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-to-a-happier-and-more-self-fulfilled-you-learn-to-say-%e2%80%98no%e2%80%99/#comment-3685 Saying no is not wrong. Also, don't leave room for negotiation---that just belittles the power of your no. "Sorry but no." end of story. Saying no is not wrong. Also, don’t leave room for negotiation—that just belittles the power of your no. “Sorry but no.” end of story.

]]> http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-to-a-happier-and-more-self-fulfilled-you-learn-to-say-%e2%80%98no%e2%80%99/comment-page-1/#comment-3426 kawaii Mon, 09 Oct 2006 02:46:26 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/getting-to-a-happier-and-more-self-fulfilled-you-learn-to-say-%e2%80%98no%e2%80%99/#comment-3426 it is also important to realize that saying "no" need not mean a terrible confrontation. If you say it in a laid-back, comfortable way, then the recipient will likely take it in in a more lighthearted manner. it is also important to realize that saying “no” need not mean a terrible confrontation. If you say it in a laid-back, comfortable way, then the recipient will likely take it in in a more lighthearted manner.

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