Comments on: Guest Post: The Cheating Detective: Whatever happened to following your gut? http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/guest-post-the-cheating-detective-whatever-happened-to-following-your-gut/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Sat, 11 Feb 2012 20:27:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: bbylove http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/guest-post-the-cheating-detective-whatever-happened-to-following-your-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-240575 bbylove Sun, 06 Sep 2009 09:07:00 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/guest-post-the-cheating-detective-whatever-happened-to-following-your-gut/#comment-240575 I agree with trusting your gut, but how can you tell if it's ur gut or if it's paranoia. I agree with trusting your gut, but how can you tell if it’s ur gut or if it’s paranoia.

]]> By: Sindh http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/guest-post-the-cheating-detective-whatever-happened-to-following-your-gut/comment-page-1/#comment-156502 Sindh Wed, 21 May 2008 00:40:58 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/guest-post-the-cheating-detective-whatever-happened-to-following-your-gut/#comment-156502 Yeah...I had my girlfriends ask me to fly over to my guy's place (another country) and confront him, we had this long distant thingy. Now the air fare, the accomodation would amount to a whole wad of cash and all for what - to confront a man who was to coward to tell me the truth. I knew deep in my heart he was lying, cheating and finally in the last months just plain draggin me along but it was me that refused to face the fact and it was me who was hoping for this frog to change into a prince. The truth is not out there, its within us but when we are too scared, too angry, too hurt to face it and most importantly accept it, we resort to these tactics. It was bad enough that I was being pathetic by loving someone that never really loved me or wanted me. All the time I was trying, he was playing and toying and I am supposed to sink lower by confronting this low life. I saved myself the cash, read the No Contact, kept writing to this blog, it has been so comforting, kept returning to me and the core of who I really am. Yeah…I had my girlfriends ask me to fly over to my guy’s place (another country) and confront him, we had this long distant thingy. Now the air fare, the accomodation would amount to a whole wad of cash and all for what – to confront a man who was to coward to tell me the truth.

I knew deep in my heart he was lying, cheating and finally in the last months just plain draggin me along but it was me that refused to face the fact and it was me who was hoping for this frog to change into a prince. The truth is not out there, its within us but when we are too scared, too angry, too hurt to face it and most importantly accept it, we resort to these tactics.

It was bad enough that I was being pathetic by loving someone that never really loved me or wanted me. All the time I was trying, he was playing and toying and I am supposed to sink lower by confronting this low life.

I saved myself the cash, read the No Contact, kept writing to this blog, it has been so comforting, kept returning to me and the core of who I really am.

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