http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/holding-the-sex-in-the-early-stages-of-dating/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Sat, 11 Feb 2012 20:27:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/holding-the-sex-in-the-early-stages-of-dating/comment-page-1/#comment-52010 Nada Mon, 09 Jul 2007 13:19:15 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/holding-the-sex-in-the-early-stages-of-dating/#comment-52010 Great post, but sometimes I think one can't win. I re-joined the dating game after being in a relationship for many many years, and I am amazed that women still have to play such games in order not to be mis-judged by a man. If you show any genuine interest, then a man thinks you're easy. A guy I was dating for a while casually commented that he did not have to try too hard to get my phone number. My phone number! Let alone sex....If I reply to emails, they think it's too easy and their interest in me fades. If I reply to texts, ditto. If I don't, they start talking about how aloof and inaccessible I am. Damned if you do, damned if you don't! Great post, but sometimes I think one can’t win.
I re-joined the dating game after being in a relationship for many many years, and I am amazed that women still have to play such games in order not to be mis-judged by a man. If you show any genuine interest, then a man thinks you’re easy. A guy I was dating for a while casually commented that he did not have to try too hard to get my phone number. My phone number! Let alone sex….If I reply to emails, they think it’s too easy and their interest in me fades. If I reply to texts, ditto. If I don’t, they start talking about how aloof and inaccessible I am. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t!

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