http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-date-baggage-free/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Fri, 30 Jul 2010 18:03:13 +0200 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-date-baggage-free/comment-page-1/#comment-149016 ananda Wed, 16 Apr 2008 06:38:11 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1015#comment-149016 thanks. thanks.

]]> http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-date-baggage-free/comment-page-1/#comment-147786 Ashley Sat, 12 Apr 2008 02:54:57 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1015#comment-147786 Good post HAF.... I am actually buying a cute new dress and heels for a party tomorrow night for that very reason. It's time to get out there!! I can't wait for the day when I can see with clarity what the past couple years (and patterns set previous to that) REALLY were. Good post HAF…. I am actually buying a cute new dress and heels for a party tomorrow night for that very reason. It’s time to get out there!! I can’t wait for the day when I can see with clarity what the past couple years (and patterns set previous to that) REALLY were.

]]> http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-date-baggage-free/comment-page-1/#comment-147642 FinallyOverIt Fri, 11 Apr 2008 15:51:02 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/?p=1015#comment-147642 Alpha, great timing for this article! I am getting ready to take the plunge and start dating again after a grueling and painful 3 years of riding the EUM rollercoaster. Through this website, and through counseling, I finally feel like I am ready, and although I know I'm not completely "fixed" per se, I feel like I have enough knowledge, experience, and lessons learned to forge ahead in the dating game. I have prepared my list (from NML's book Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl) of what I want in a relationship, and more importantly, what I don't want in a relationship, and hopefully, I will be much more tuned in to possible EUM red flags! Not to sound like psycho-babble, but I think I am FINALLY learning to love myself, and if I could quote a country song (ewww! sorry...) "I ain't settling for just getting by-- I've had enough 'so, so' for the rest of my life-- tired of shootin' too low, going to set the bar high-- I ain't settling for anything less than everything." Alpha, great timing for this article! I am getting ready to take the plunge and start dating again after a grueling and painful 3 years of riding the EUM rollercoaster. Through this website, and through counseling, I finally feel like I am ready, and although I know I’m not completely “fixed” per se, I feel like I have enough knowledge, experience, and lessons learned to forge ahead in the dating game. I have prepared my list (from NML’s book Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl) of what I want in a relationship, and more importantly, what I don’t want in a relationship, and hopefully, I will be much more tuned in to possible EUM red flags! Not to sound like psycho-babble, but I think I am FINALLY learning to love myself, and if I could quote a country song (ewww! sorry…) “I ain’t settling for just getting by– I’ve had enough ‘so, so’ for the rest of my life– tired of shootin’ too low, going to set the bar high– I ain’t settling for anything less than everything.”

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