Comments on: Guest post: How to demagnetize a Drama Magnet…

By: Kate W

Kate W — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 21:21:35 +0000

I’ve been reading several articles, irrationally wondering if they applied to me – this article (and recent nice unprovoked texts, and sharing the crazy with my mother) just confirmed how irrational my fears are Now if you’ll excuse me, I’ll resume my big clothes-redoing project…..

By: The Drama Reduction 12 Step Programme

The Drama Reduction 12 Step Programme — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 17:19:21 +0000

[...] day to live lives that involve minimal drama, whether that be on our own, or with a man. We will bow out of relationships and interactions that diminish our self-esteem and devalue us, such as with Mr Unavailable’s and Bad [...]

By: NML

NML — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 15:42:10 +0000

I was actually laughing out loud and cringing at the same time. I remember these times oh so well. The last time it happened to me, which is over two years now, I spent 45 minutes pacing my flat literally losing my effing marbles. All sorts of conversations played out in my head and my mind lurched all over the place. And then suddenly, it was like a calm descended on me and I was like “What the f is wrong with you?” The awareness of how ridiculous my behaviour was forced me to come back to reality and suddenly I was more rational and I realised that I had jumped to a horrible conclusion and was treating the boyf like he was one of my old assclowns. I must use the full story of this for a post actually!

By: Drama Seeking Triggers

Drama Seeking Triggers — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 12:35:01 +0000

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By: Kaymart

Kaymart — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 10:16:56 +0000

New poster, please put me in the ‘group shot’ too. I like the image of a monster that has to be fed, plus it pops up out of nowhere! I’ve found meditation helpful, not so much in the middle of one, but as an ongoing thing to keep an inner security, which is what seems to be lacking. Take care, lovely people!

By: cheekie

cheekie — Fri, 04 Apr 2008 00:59:56 +0000

no prob…group photo maybe?
lol

By: Astelle

Astelle — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 17:13:07 +0000

Please levae some space on the poster for my face…

By: cheekie

cheekie — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 14:39:30 +0000

Lisa, you got it, he’s not for you. We do we get ourselves all wound up about some guy or situation that is so ridiculous? Really, we make up this whole scenario in our heads, over a phone call? or a text? or an email?? We’re nuts.
‘But I really thought he could be the one’ we whine to our gf’s. A guy who can’t reply to an email, is still being thought of as a possible ‘one’???

bloody hell, I think we’re gonna need bigger posters.

By: Cmdg

Cmdg — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 14:25:15 +0000

great post. Ditto what Lisag said… as in “Hi my name is cmdg and as much as I don’t want to admit it, my face should be on that poster too….” lol.

By: lisaq

lisaq — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 11:36:37 +0000

Again I could be the poster child here…this series is starting to scare me! But seriously, if I could count the number of times I’ve done this, I’m sure it would scare the bejesus out of me! My mind’s mantra? What did I say to scare him away? I must have said something stupid, something scary, something, something, something.

What I have to do is remind myself that if dude is that easily put off by something I might have said, he’s not for me anyway. His loss. I’m doing better…sometimes…mostly…