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		<title>By: saphia</title>
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		<dc:creator>saphia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 04:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi ive been seeing this man for 1 year and a half, he loves me no doubt about that, i played the game on him and hooked him so well , as my mum  always says if its not mr right you use them before they use you . when i met him he never took me shopping he didnt want to spend a penny for first 6 months then after i have made him spent over Â£15,000 on me. i love it but i have never cheated on him but loved to use him for my shopping addiction. when i first met him within 2 weeks he was telling me i love you and putting me down and trying to get in my nickers,but i did give it up to him after 3 months only because i was drunk and smoked weed because it was carnival night i know stupid me i really regret pleasing that shit man, my fault dont see men when you drink alcohol or smoke weed us woman become very fragile and men know this and usually take advantage but a GOOD MAN would pay for your taxi fare home. only a using shit would try anything on a drunk woman. well anyway this shit that im seeing made sure do to so. i told him no several times he decide to do it any way as he knew i was in a weak position he forced it in and we had sex the first time he cumed not even me. can you belive that. it made me sick.  as i am a hot girl and not used to this treatment i thought to myself  WATCH OUT BITCH im gonna make you pay. I dont like men that think there to smart it irritates my intelligence.for some reason shit men seem to think women are stupid but its not true is it ladies were just more caring and soft hearted. i am very smart and do know the game and im only 21 years old. i have been played but allowed it to happen to use them and loved it i just love to use a man that thinks he can use me. I would never use a GOOD MAN NEVER NEVER NEVER. Remember a good man loves you he dont play about with your feelings and dont just want to Fuck you. Men that want sex is because they just want to use you there a sick and deeply disturbed mentally a evil man and evil men have majour issues you cant change there past so dont bother, you cant change a dirty rat that lives in the sweres his always going to go back to his evil and disturbimg ways he would fool you make you belive his a ok bloke but darling you got all the signal wrong. totally. I have met alot of good men and they never  would sex you i mean NEVER. If he sexs you or tries it the first 6 months he just wants to use you. So anyway this guy wanted to use me my man im still seeing. I hooked him but dont do what ive done if your a weak girl its very time consuming and not worth the headache unless you have a strong personality then forget about, hooking the man game with a player. DONT BOTHER. I used him and well. but remember its not bad as he just wanted to use me at first  as i was real to him. the smart thing is to just FINNISH. THROW IN THE RUBBISH. but i was bored and wanted to play i love to play as i am very good at it, i sure know how to wrap a man round my finger and used him i have been for money but have been faithful to him. im not a slut its a differens i only used him because he wanted to use me first just use a man that wants to use you. rule 1 on how to hook a man.when you first meet him go on like a really dumb girl i mean stupid, thick, a idiot, but make sure to observe him. still keep your personallity but remmember if you show a player your to smart they will play upgrade the game and play even a better game, you want to catch them out so what a perfect act of the air head girl the really girly girl oh my god i broke a nail kind of act im just a girl what do we know about the shit men i know nothing. catch out this horibble a worthless piece of scum that wants to use a beautifull woman, you have to have no mercy for your enemy, when some one wants to use you he automatically becomes your enemy an eye for an eye. dont get weak there no time be soft for all that girly shit its a dog eat dog world when i say the girly shit is that girly moments us girls have maybe his a nice guy aaaahhhh he got me flowers his so funny oh my god his so cute.but remember the player is a good actors a comedian and a fake a faking shit he has no morals none what so ever ,put that into your heads. ITS YOU OR THEM. CHOOSE WELL.  rule 2 never pay i mean never pay for a player never no matter what excuse he tells you just take it  and think it as blah blah blah you wish ass hole just smile and say baby i dont have no money with me. SORRY! Rule 3 never call him. i mean never not once. players like to be called and chased thats a ego booster and you dont want to do that if he tell you why dont you call me just say my credits gone. stand him up, when you wind up a player he sure shows his true colours quick.Rule 4 make sure you always look good a player is usually a hater. if you always look good and never pay for him he sure will show his evil sides. rule 5 always leave the date early never show him where you live and after you leave and go where you have to go home maybe out with the girls dont ANSWER HE CALLS. Text only text never call him. rule 6 please ladies please i love my ladies i know its hard we are SOFT sexy creatures dont give what theses assholes want please dont belive them.  be a liar like them be late like them and use them before they use you.  I f they wont let themselves get used dump him tell him its over when my man didnt want to spend cash i said i aint no FREE WOMEN. Im not free. are you crazy. i know us women can be shy to ask when we just met a man. But dont be shy to be a BOSSY BITCH. boss him i mean bossssssssss bossss him  show him whose boss. show him girlfriend.this worm wants to use you yes a worm squash that worm. hook him. hook him. if you give a player what he wants his not going to give you what you want. you can hook him it takes a long time. ladies i have to go now i havent finnished the rules but i know my ladies arent stupid were way smater and kinder than men thats why GOD made the women have children were so caring and loving and can do about 10 things at a time. men can only do one thing at a time. women please use your intelligence. Dont get fooled get smart. god bless my ladies the sexy creatures that we are are, sexy bodies are beautiful hair and seductive legs. use this power god gave us against those SHIT MAN. only shit men. and ladies look after the good men please dont use them. please my ladies. and one more thing rule 7 before i go. if his broke then his a joke. goodnight ladies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi ive been seeing this man for 1 year and a half, he loves me no doubt about that, i played the game on him and hooked him so well , as my mum  always says if its not mr right you use them before they use you . when i met him he never took me shopping he didnt want to spend a penny for first 6 months then after i have made him spent over Â£15,000 on me. i love it but i have never cheated on him but loved to use him for my shopping addiction. when i first met him within 2 weeks he was telling me i love you and putting me down and trying to get in my nickers,but i did give it up to him after 3 months only because i was drunk and smoked weed because it was carnival night i know stupid me i really regret pleasing that shit man, my fault dont see men when you drink alcohol or smoke weed us woman become very fragile and men know this and usually take advantage but a GOOD MAN would pay for your taxi fare home. only a using shit would try anything on a drunk woman. well anyway this shit that im seeing made sure do to so. i told him no several times he decide to do it any way as he knew i was in a weak position he forced it in and we had sex the first time he cumed not even me. can you belive that. it made me sick.  as i am a hot girl and not used to this treatment i thought to myself  WATCH OUT BITCH im gonna make you pay. I dont like men that think there to smart it irritates my intelligence.for some reason shit men seem to think women are stupid but its not true is it ladies were just more caring and soft hearted. i am very smart and do know the game and im only 21 years old. i have been played but allowed it to happen to use them and loved it i just love to use a man that thinks he can use me. I would never use a GOOD MAN NEVER NEVER NEVER. Remember a good man loves you he dont play about with your feelings and dont just want to Fuck you. Men that want sex is because they just want to use you there a sick and deeply disturbed mentally a evil man and evil men have majour issues you cant change there past so dont bother, you cant change a dirty rat that lives in the sweres his always going to go back to his evil and disturbimg ways he would fool you make you belive his a ok bloke but darling you got all the signal wrong. totally. I have met alot of good men and they never  would sex you i mean NEVER. If he sexs you or tries it the first 6 months he just wants to use you. So anyway this guy wanted to use me my man im still seeing. I hooked him but dont do what ive done if your a weak girl its very time consuming and not worth the headache unless you have a strong personality then forget about, hooking the man game with a player. DONT BOTHER. I used him and well. but remember its not bad as he just wanted to use me at first  as i was real to him. the smart thing is to just FINNISH. THROW IN THE RUBBISH. but i was bored and wanted to play i love to play as i am very good at it, i sure know how to wrap a man round my finger and used him i have been for money but have been faithful to him. im not a slut its a differens i only used him because he wanted to use me first just use a man that wants to use you. rule 1 on how to hook a man.when you first meet him go on like a really dumb girl i mean stupid, thick, a idiot, but make sure to observe him. still keep your personallity but remmember if you show a player your to smart they will play upgrade the game and play even a better game, you want to catch them out so what a perfect act of the air head girl the really girly girl oh my god i broke a nail kind of act im just a girl what do we know about the shit men i know nothing. catch out this horibble a worthless piece of scum that wants to use a beautifull woman, you have to have no mercy for your enemy, when some one wants to use you he automatically becomes your enemy an eye for an eye. dont get weak there no time be soft for all that girly shit its a dog eat dog world when i say the girly shit is that girly moments us girls have maybe his a nice guy aaaahhhh he got me flowers his so funny oh my god his so cute.but remember the player is a good actors a comedian and a fake a faking shit he has no morals none what so ever ,put that into your heads. ITS YOU OR THEM. CHOOSE WELL.  rule 2 never pay i mean never pay for a player never no matter what excuse he tells you just take it  and think it as blah blah blah you wish ass hole just smile and say baby i dont have no money with me. SORRY! Rule 3 never call him. i mean never not once. players like to be called and chased thats a ego booster and you dont want to do that if he tell you why dont you call me just say my credits gone. stand him up, when you wind up a player he sure shows his true colours quick.Rule 4 make sure you always look good a player is usually a hater. if you always look good and never pay for him he sure will show his evil sides. rule 5 always leave the date early never show him where you live and after you leave and go where you have to go home maybe out with the girls dont ANSWER HE CALLS. Text only text never call him. rule 6 please ladies please i love my ladies i know its hard we are SOFT sexy creatures dont give what theses assholes want please dont belive them.  be a liar like them be late like them and use them before they use you.  I f they wont let themselves get used dump him tell him its over when my man didnt want to spend cash i said i aint no FREE WOMEN. Im not free. are you crazy. i know us women can be shy to ask when we just met a man. But dont be shy to be a BOSSY BITCH. boss him i mean bossssssssss bossss him  show him whose boss. show him girlfriend.this worm wants to use you yes a worm squash that worm. hook him. hook him. if you give a player what he wants his not going to give you what you want. you can hook him it takes a long time. ladies i have to go now i havent finnished the rules but i know my ladies arent stupid were way smater and kinder than men thats why GOD made the women have children were so caring and loving and can do about 10 things at a time. men can only do one thing at a time. women please use your intelligence. Dont get fooled get smart. god bless my ladies the sexy creatures that we are are, sexy bodies are beautiful hair and seductive legs. use this power god gave us against those SHIT MAN. only shit men. and ladies look after the good men please dont use them. please my ladies. and one more thing rule 7 before i go. if his broke then his a joke. goodnight ladies.</p>
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		<title>By: Krista</title>
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		<dc:creator>Krista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 14:21:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ohhhh, and one more thing, I forgot, lol.
He wouldn&#039;t tell me his last name. I think that&#039;s a red flag right there- he didn&#039;t want me to talk to him on Facebook. Obviously he had something to hide.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ohhhh, and one more thing, I forgot, lol.<br />
He wouldn&#8217;t tell me his last name. I think that&#8217;s a red flag right there- he didn&#8217;t want me to talk to him on Facebook. Obviously he had something to hide.</p>
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		<title>By: Krista</title>
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		<dc:creator>Krista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 14:19:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I met this guy who worked at the boardwalk on the beach when I was on vacation. I&#039;m 17 and never had a boyfriend before. I ended up meeting him at a party with my friend and the next day I talked to him at work and he asked me to go on a date with him. Well, he turned out to be a player and he broke my heart, because of course I was naive and innocent and willing to trust him immediately because he made me feel like I could. Here are some of the things he did:
1.) On our date (We hung out for 3 hours, 2 on the beach) he told me, &quot;He doesn&#039;t pursue women.&quot;
2.) Another thing: I rumpled up the towel and he said, &quot;You girls are all the same&quot;. I should of realized it then but I was too charmed by him. How many girls has he laid on a freakin&#039; towel with?
3.) He was very, very calm, and I was nervous as hell. Therefore he has had a lot of experience.
4.) He smokes a lot of weed at night and drinks at night a lot, too.
5.) He doesn&#039;t have a phone or car. At first I believed him- after all, he only works there in the summer as a henna artist, and he&#039;s from Canada. It would be annoying to have to get an international phone. But then one day he unplugged something that looked like a Blackberry and said it was his alarm in front of me.
6.) He didn&#039;t have his driver&#039;s license and he&#039;s 22. Now, some people have legitimate reasons- but he said something about probation. So he&#039;s done illegal stuff in the past and got caught.
7.) His childhood was a bit abusive.
8.) He mentioned his ex-girlfriend a few times- therefore giving me the impression that he was willing to commit. But now I realize that he was probably insecure since his breakup with her (either that or he still dates her but she lives in Canada and he&#039;s trying to fulfill his needs other ways).
9.) He said he doesn&#039;t like to hold hands. Now, maybe he just didn&#039;t want other girls to see him in a relationship?

Seriously, girls, we have to be able to see guys for who they really are and not just fall for the illusion that they create for us. Because no matter what, a man is a man, and a lot of them are assholes. And that&#039;s what I learned this summer.
But I also walked away with the confidence that I can attract a man and flirt with him, so in a way the experience was a good thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I met this guy who worked at the boardwalk on the beach when I was on vacation. I&#8217;m 17 and never had a boyfriend before. I ended up meeting him at a party with my friend and the next day I talked to him at work and he asked me to go on a date with him. Well, he turned out to be a player and he broke my heart, because of course I was naive and innocent and willing to trust him immediately because he made me feel like I could. Here are some of the things he did:<br />
1.) On our date (We hung out for 3 hours, 2 on the beach) he told me, &#8220;He doesn&#8217;t pursue women.&#8221;<br />
2.) Another thing: I rumpled up the towel and he said, &#8220;You girls are all the same&#8221;. I should of realized it then but I was too charmed by him. How many girls has he laid on a freakin&#8217; towel with?<br />
3.) He was very, very calm, and I was nervous as hell. Therefore he has had a lot of experience.<br />
4.) He smokes a lot of weed at night and drinks at night a lot, too.<br />
5.) He doesn&#8217;t have a phone or car. At first I believed him- after all, he only works there in the summer as a henna artist, and he&#8217;s from Canada. It would be annoying to have to get an international phone. But then one day he unplugged something that looked like a Blackberry and said it was his alarm in front of me.<br />
6.) He didn&#8217;t have his driver&#8217;s license and he&#8217;s 22. Now, some people have legitimate reasons- but he said something about probation. So he&#8217;s done illegal stuff in the past and got caught.<br />
7.) His childhood was a bit abusive.<br />
8.) He mentioned his ex-girlfriend a few times- therefore giving me the impression that he was willing to commit. But now I realize that he was probably insecure since his breakup with her (either that or he still dates her but she lives in Canada and he&#8217;s trying to fulfill his needs other ways).<br />
9.) He said he doesn&#8217;t like to hold hands. Now, maybe he just didn&#8217;t want other girls to see him in a relationship?</p>
<p>Seriously, girls, we have to be able to see guys for who they really are and not just fall for the illusion that they create for us. Because no matter what, a man is a man, and a lot of them are assholes. And that&#8217;s what I learned this summer.<br />
But I also walked away with the confidence that I can attract a man and flirt with him, so in a way the experience was a good thing.</p>
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		<title>By: sona</title>
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		<dc:creator>sona</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 06:43:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>very good advice next time arround i know what to look for ?
knew somthing was wrong when i had to shair my time with another so called&quot; friend&quot;. ask all the right questions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>very good advice next time arround i know what to look for ?<br />
knew somthing was wrong when i had to shair my time with another so called&#8221; friend&#8221;. ask all the right questions.</p>
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		<title>By: Burgled!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Burgled!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:18:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#18 When I introduced an ex of mine to my mum he was winking at her and flirting with her!!! I was only 17. How embarrassing. He later went on to kiss an acquaintance of mine behind my back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#18 When I introduced an ex of mine to my mum he was winking at her and flirting with her!!! I was only 17. How embarrassing. He later went on to kiss an acquaintance of mine behind my back.</p>
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		<title>By: Burgled!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Burgled!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:09:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#7. I was seeing someone who raved about how he once had a girlfriend who would sit with him, caressing him and stuff, while he flirted with other ppl. Hello!!! Who in their right mind???</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#7. I was seeing someone who raved about how he once had a girlfriend who would sit with him, caressing him and stuff, while he flirted with other ppl. Hello!!! Who in their right mind???</p>
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		<title>By: jaded</title>
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		<dc:creator>jaded</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 12:37:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a good article, if only I knew back then, what I know now.....I would have run a mile! My &quot;Playa&quot; used to boast about all his previous conquests (and then tone it down and tell me I was &quot;different&quot;), tell me he was a master manipulator the devil himself (but tone it down and say he had met his match in me as I challenged him on all fronts),  how he and his friends used to &quot;challenge&quot; each other as to who could pick up the &quot;ugliest girl - sleep with her and then walk out her life the next day&quot; (and tone it down saying, but he would never do this to me as he has since grown up). I used to laugh it off - surely there could NOT be such a man on the planet,  I used to think - he HAS to be kidding - how naive was I? He was a &quot;playa&quot; and I was &quot;played&quot;. At least I can see them coming now!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a good article, if only I knew back then, what I know now&#8230;..I would have run a mile! My &#8220;Playa&#8221; used to boast about all his previous conquests (and then tone it down and tell me I was &#8220;different&#8221;), tell me he was a master manipulator the devil himself (but tone it down and say he had met his match in me as I challenged him on all fronts),  how he and his friends used to &#8220;challenge&#8221; each other as to who could pick up the &#8220;ugliest girl &#8211; sleep with her and then walk out her life the next day&#8221; (and tone it down saying, but he would never do this to me as he has since grown up). I used to laugh it off &#8211; surely there could NOT be such a man on the planet,  I used to think &#8211; he HAS to be kidding &#8211; how naive was I? He was a &#8220;playa&#8221; and I was &#8220;played&#8221;. At least I can see them coming now!</p>
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		<title>By: Hot Alpha Female</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hot Alpha Female</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2008 01:58:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Players, you can smell them from a mile away! The one thing you can tell when its a player is that extra attention he gives you,  while still being confident and cool.

Girls, we love players, because we are highly attracted to them. When we say we arnt attracted to the good guys. Do we mean the guys that are loyal and faithful to us, or the guys that just dont know how to put us in our place?! LoL

We love players, because they dare to challenge us, they arnt like all the other guys out there, that want to compliment us 24/7 and kiss our butt all day and listen to everything they say.

The thing that we have to realize is that attraction is the number one reason why we will go out with someone.

Understand that to create attraction, all it is .. is a set of communication skills, in knowing how to deal with women.

Once you understand that its all a game, your not so sucked in and lovely dovey with a man that really is unavailable and a bit of a man whore and you can appreciate the good nice guy for once.

Hot Alpha Female

www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Players, you can smell them from a mile away! The one thing you can tell when its a player is that extra attention he gives you,  while still being confident and cool.</p>
<p>Girls, we love players, because we are highly attracted to them. When we say we arnt attracted to the good guys. Do we mean the guys that are loyal and faithful to us, or the guys that just dont know how to put us in our place?! LoL</p>
<p>We love players, because they dare to challenge us, they arnt like all the other guys out there, that want to compliment us 24/7 and kiss our butt all day and listen to everything they say.</p>
<p>The thing that we have to realize is that attraction is the number one reason why we will go out with someone.</p>
<p>Understand that to create attraction, all it is .. is a set of communication skills, in knowing how to deal with women.</p>
<p>Once you understand that its all a game, your not so sucked in and lovely dovey with a man that really is unavailable and a bit of a man whore and you can appreciate the good nice guy for once.</p>
<p>Hot Alpha Female</p>
<p><a href="http://www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Gem</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gem</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2007 13:06:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i&#039;m seeing a player, and like natasha (that girl who made the comment before me), he does it for me too. but i&#039;m not in love or really emotionally attached, so i&#039;m still okay. well, for now. thing is, i caught him in a lie. turns out he has a girlfriend in his hometown. he admitted it to me when he got busted, coz he had no choice. and i&#039;m still seeing him! and it even came straight from the horse&#039;s mouth. he did say &quot;i&#039;m a player&quot; after i caught him in his game. good for me that i found out this early, at least i know how to deal with him (like, not fall for him). but i want him - he&#039;s good company and we have fun. and heck, i&#039;m really bored right now! but i guess i&#039;m staying mostly because of lust...oops! well, it&#039;s true. he&#039;s hot, what can i say? so tell me, should i dump him? or, since i&#039;m not really serious anyways, should i just keep playing?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;m seeing a player, and like natasha (that girl who made the comment before me), he does it for me too. but i&#8217;m not in love or really emotionally attached, so i&#8217;m still okay. well, for now. thing is, i caught him in a lie. turns out he has a girlfriend in his hometown. he admitted it to me when he got busted, coz he had no choice. and i&#8217;m still seeing him! and it even came straight from the horse&#8217;s mouth. he did say &#8220;i&#8217;m a player&#8221; after i caught him in his game. good for me that i found out this early, at least i know how to deal with him (like, not fall for him). but i want him &#8211; he&#8217;s good company and we have fun. and heck, i&#8217;m really bored right now! but i guess i&#8217;m staying mostly because of lust&#8230;oops! well, it&#8217;s true. he&#8217;s hot, what can i say? so tell me, should i dump him? or, since i&#8217;m not really serious anyways, should i just keep playing?</p>
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		<title>By: Natasha</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/comment-page-1/#comment-41231</link>
		<dc:creator>Natasha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jun 2007 12:11:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am seeing a player, he just really does it for me. The problem I have is that I am never attracted to any &#039;good&#039; guys. And what fascinates me is that his friends tell me he&#039;s a good guy. He lied to me about things right from the start, now, after 4 months I have unraveled exactly how he plays his game. I am finding it really difficult to let him go. What should I do about myself to be attracted to a normal down-to-earth guy. I&#039;m starting to think it&#039;s just never going to happen. To break this pattern is very impossible for me, I even stopped dating for 3 years previously - hoping it will stop. Then I dated, and the first guy, this one, has been the biggest player ever. I&#039;m a pretty confidant, intelligent, beautiful woman, just struggling to get this right. Thanks for your advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am seeing a player, he just really does it for me. The problem I have is that I am never attracted to any &#8216;good&#8217; guys. And what fascinates me is that his friends tell me he&#8217;s a good guy. He lied to me about things right from the start, now, after 4 months I have unraveled exactly how he plays his game. I am finding it really difficult to let him go. What should I do about myself to be attracted to a normal down-to-earth guy. I&#8217;m starting to think it&#8217;s just never going to happen. To break this pattern is very impossible for me, I even stopped dating for 3 years previously &#8211; hoping it will stop. Then I dated, and the first guy, this one, has been the biggest player ever. I&#8217;m a pretty confidant, intelligent, beautiful woman, just struggling to get this right. Thanks for your advice.</p>
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		<title>By: S</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/comment-page-1/#comment-30564</link>
		<dc:creator>S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 16:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>omg, most of them are me :-(

am I a player? I dont want to be. Maybe its because i have been f***** around by women players.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>omg, most of them are me <img src='http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>am I a player? I dont want to be. Maybe its because i have been f***** around by women players.</p>
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		<title>By: ashely</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/comment-page-1/#comment-24987</link>
		<dc:creator>ashely</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2007 21:56:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i always knew something was up.. but i never thought he was really a player. thank god i know now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i always knew something was up.. but i never thought he was really a player. thank god i know now.</p>
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		<title>By: kay</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/comment-page-1/#comment-8762</link>
		<dc:creator>kay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jan 2007 22:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>sounds just like my last bf new him 3 days and afta i dumped him i found out everything he had done to hundreds of other girls but he has a few odd nickname too.. very good</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>sounds just like my last bf new him 3 days and afta i dumped him i found out everything he had done to hundreds of other girls but he has a few odd nickname too.. very good</p>
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		<title>By: naive girl</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/comment-page-1/#comment-5884</link>
		<dc:creator>naive girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Dec 2006 00:18:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>or how about when everbody has wierd nicknames for him like &quot;the fisherman&quot; and he wont tell you what it means</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>or how about when everbody has wierd nicknames for him like &#8220;the fisherman&#8221; and he wont tell you what it means</p>
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		<title>By: sarah hilton</title>
		<link>http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/how-to-spot-a-player-playa/comment-page-1/#comment-4456</link>
		<dc:creator>sarah hilton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Nov 2006 01:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>O&#039;dear I have just realized that most of the men I meet are players - thnakfully I don&#039;t usually fall for it after being caught out THREE times before.

but thats good helpful advice u got going there atleast I know what to look out for now.

 keep up the good work :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>O&#8217;dear I have just realized that most of the men I meet are players &#8211; thnakfully I don&#8217;t usually fall for it after being caught out THREE times before.</p>
<p>but thats good helpful advice u got going there atleast I know what to look out for now.</p>
<p> keep up the good work <img src='http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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