Kissing Like a Pro
Bear these tips in mind and you will probably get compliments on your mad kissing skills!
Kissing is an art that should be as innate to mankind as breathing. However, I have come across many guys who don’t know the finer aspects of kissing. There have been those who just stick their tongues in my mouth and lay there like a dead fish, those that lick and slobber all on my face, those that bite and leave bruises on my lips and a host of many other bad kissers.
In reality, the finer aspects of kissing is not as complex as one would think. All it takes is some intuition, some finesse and being aware of your partner.
When moving in for that first smooch, make it a gentle exploration. Don’t get all hot and heavy in the first minute, it should just be a light coupling of the mouths, like the first handshake. Butterfly kisses are always good starter kisses, as you both get acclimatized to being so up close and personal.
After that, you move in for the next kiss, and this is when it gets dicey. This is when you either fail or pass the kissing test. You have to notice the way that he/she is kissing you…because people tend to kiss others the way they want to be kissed. For the first few moments, just imitate their technique until you have mastered it well enough that you can add a dash of your own. I have used this on every single guy that I have deemed worthy enough to kiss and they always tell me what a great kisser I am.
Don’t forget to include other areas of the body in your kissing as well, let your hands wander in their hair, earlobes, the nape of the neck, their hands, their elbows and any other sundry spots that you have been itching to run your hands over.
The best kisses that I have had are the ones that I just go at it intuitively, not thinking of my style or technique, not thinking on anything at all…just being in the moment. For once you start thinking, it takes you out of the moment and you won’t be able to fully savor the experience.
So go ahead, take that plunge and kiss whoever you like, knowing full well that you are the best guy/girl that they have ever kissed.
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