Link Love
February 12, 2008 by NML
I’m still in love with TrueHookUpConfessions. The funniest one is a girl meets a guy when he calls her number by accident and discovers that he’s a psycho after a year! Hilarious!
Just in case one orgasm isn’t enough, Vixen’s teaching you all how to have multiple orgasms over at the Bad Girls Guide
I’m now a columnist over at the very fabulous, very popular Ask Dan and Jennifer. My first post was 10 Tips for Surviving Valentine’s Day Whether You’re Single or Attached.
We’re being forgotten on Valentine’s day, well at least if we live in the UK… This is just further proof that there are a lot of people that don’t buy into this Hallmark day….[Yell]
Hot Alpha Women is helping men understand our lingo.
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Dear NML
I am an avid reader of your blogs and I want to tell you that you have some great truth articles here which we women need to hear instead of the namby pamby. What you write is absolutely true, the world is inside out, what we feel inside is what we seek outside so thus every single answer to our problems lies inside with our self , our esteem and who we really are and that is what I notice you keep zeroing in on, we are accountable for our choices and what those choices bring us. Easier said that done I guess. Anyways here is something I found which is pretty much sums it all up for us. Thank you for all the advice.
http://blog.beliefnet.com/MarthaWilliamson/2008/02/the_bride_of_cherrios.html
Its a pattern which WE WOMEN, US help to set.
Here’s what happened with me. I went from an independent, intelligent, secure woman to a nervous, snivelling wreck, it did not happen overnight, he did it systematically and you do not even realise it creeping up on you.
While we used to speak everyday, my guy was BIGGGG on giving me the silent treatment. It ‘d throw me off balance and I’d keep calling him, and sending him texts to which of course he never replied. This would go on for weeks until he’s finally satisfied or his egos been inflated enough, I mean who knows, we are not dealing with the norm here but the point is this, we are participating in these games. Oh here is the best part, if you think coz you put up with this BS he is finally gonna see how great you are, appreciate you or finally treat you right, think again, ALL IT DOES IS GET WORSE, REALLY WORSE. I know, been there, done that.
I have stepped away, not easy but possible and the longer you stay away, the clearer the picture becomes.
I have broken up and got together many times, nothing has changed. And you can read all the blogs and articles from here to kingdom come but if you are not going want something good and right for you, nothing will help.
I spend each day thinking, if I had put my foot down and respected myself more, one of two things would have happened.
He would have left me or learnt to respect me
more. I would not have lost either way now would I.
Take care all.