List of Posts
The BS Diet
What to say when someone asks: Why aren't you married yet?
What type of bitching are you indulging in?
What's the problem with saying NO? When you have negative associations with NO
When Someone Keeps Pressing the Reset Button on their Behaviour in Relationships
When someone wants you to devalue yourself in a relationship based on their previous experiences with somebody else
When You Feel Under Pressure From Family To 'Forget' a Drama Just In Time For The Holidays
When You Think Somebody's Mad At You… Even When You Haven't Done Anything
When you're met with the You're The First / You're The Only One With A Problem defense
Which Do You Prefer - The Problem or The Solution?
Why Are You Still Single?
Why do we throw ourselves at bad relationships and then wonder why it hurts?
Why it's time to stop telling people what they want to hear (or what we *think* they want to hear)
Why it's time to stop telling yourself that the last chance saloon has gone
Why telling 'little lies' can end up mattering in a big way
Why You Need To Drop Convincing Out of Your Relationships
Why You Need To Drop The 'But nobody's perfect! We all have baggage!' Argument
You Just Don't Have That Kind Of Power: You Haven't 'Made' Someone Be Or Do Something
You're not going to crazy-make me! Why I won't be making sense out of nonsense and you shouldn't either!
You're Not In Pretty Woman: Do You Believe In The Booty Call 'Fairy Tale'?
Your Frustrations With Others Provides Insight Into Where You May Need To Adapt
Your Situation May Feel 'Unique' But Really, It's Not Unique In Literally Being the Only One of Its Kind
Values & Compatibility
"Charming" tends to be a precursor to code red problems
10 Reasons Women Choose Men...and why they shouldn't! Part One
10 Reasons Women Choose Men...and why they shouldn't! Part Two
A 'connection' or having 'so much in common' isn't the same as intimacy
Acknowledge your blind spots around compatibility
Am I Too Picky? The Tricky Issue of Quality Control In Dating & Relationships (P1)
Am I Too Picky? The Tricky Issue of Quality Control In Dating & Relationships (P2)
Appearance isn't the same as worth
Are You Being Blinded By 'Good Points'?
Are You Compromised In Your Relationships?
Are You Living By YOUR Values In Your Relationships? They May Be Great On Illusionary Paper, But Where Are The Shared Values?
Being Valued & Having Personal Values in Relationships: Discover Your Value Now (Part 3)
Being Valued & Having Personal Values in Relationships: You Have To Be Living That Value Now (Part 2)
Being Valued & Having Personal Values in Relationships: Your Value Is As Good As How You Treat You (Part 1)
But we have so much in common! That shaky 'ole common ground in relationships
Compatibility, Your Type, and Common Interests Part 4
Compatibility, Your Type, and Common Interests Part 5
Compatibility, Your Type, and Common Interests Part One
Compatibility, Your Type, and Common Interests Part Three
Compatibility, Your Type, and Common Interests Part Two
Despite 'good points', we deal with the consequences of people coming as full packages
Don't be bewildered by why somebody doesn't think and act as you do - you're very different individual entities
Don't conflate common interests with character and shared core values
Everything in Relationships is Contextual: Ask Yourself What Does This Mean To Me or Our Relationship?
Getting Blinded By Your Principles
Getting Stuck On Chemistry – That Intangible Thing You Swear You Have So Much Of
Getting To Grips With Sexual Values - Avoiding Sexual Insanity, Rewarding and Gratitude and more
Getting To Grips With Sexual Values - Stop Trying To Revolutionise The Wheel, Chasing The Feeling + more
Great on paper, not so great in reality: Why superficial reasons don't carry much weight with deep decisions
How Buying My Wedding Dress Ended Up Giving Me A Refresher Course On Commitment & 'Chemistry'
I'm Off Mr Unavailables and Assclowns: Where will I find my passion and joy now?
I'm Successful! Why Am I Still Single?
If you have core values issues, you have compatibility issues
In Search of Fireworks: Chasing that Special Spark
It's OK to want different things. It doesn't make you 'wrong'!
Judging Isn't The Same As Guessing: Why it's time to stop giving you a hard time for being a bad guesser of character
Keeping It Real - The Importance of Being Authentic & Accepting Your Partner For Who They Are
Knowing When To Work At Your Relationship P2: Questions to Ask Yourself & Key Signs
Knowing When To Work at Your Relationship Part One
Life Lessons: The Danger of Making Assumptions About People and Relationships
More On Sexual Values: Questions To Ask Yourself Before Embarking On Sex
More Videos: But We Have So Much In Common, Why is he calling when he doesn't want to get back together? and more...
Morphing: Trying to fit in too much with your man
Overestimating the chemistry and the attraction in your relationships
People Unfold: Let Go Of the Assumptions & Expectations 'Snapshot' & Get To Know Someone
Reader Question: How do I know if I'm overestimating myself?
Recognising That Being Intelligent Is Not the Same As Being Relationship Smart
Revisited: Values & Being Valued In Relationships - Your Value Is As Good As How You Treat You
Stop The ASSumptions!: 28 Dodgy Reasons People Give For Choosing Someone For A Relationship
The Trouble With Being Blinded By Appearance in Dating & Relationships
There’s a difference between personality and character
Trading On Your Looks & Sex Appeal Part 1
Trading On Your Looks & Sex Appeal Part 2
Trading On Your Looks & Sex Appeal Part 3
Treat You As You Want & Expect Others To Treat You
Understanding Why Relationships Don't Always Work Out
Understanding your core values in relationships (no they're not your common interests)
What being screwed over on a house taught me about living up to your values and commitment
When somebody says one thing, does another, thinks something else
When You're Not His Type, But He's With YOU
Why don't women enjoy a healthy relationship after leaving a damaging one?
Why People Don't See Their Qualities & Contributions to Relationships Accurately Part 2
Why People Don't See Their Qualities & Contributions to Relationships Accurately Part 3
Why People Don't See Their Qualities & Contributions to Relationships Accurately Part One
You can't force a relationship (or attraction) with a 'Nice Guy'
Your Relationships Provide a Window Into Understanding What You *Need*