Well it’s about that time to say Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays! I’ll be back in a few days! I thought I’d include a photo of me with my girls, Nia 20 months and Saria 3.5 years taken a short while ago.
Whatever you’re doing and whoever you’re doing it with , whether you’re spending it with Me, Myself, and I, with family, friends, a romantic partner, or dare I say it, a reluctant partner, take care of you, enjoy yourself if you can, and remember to be present in mind, spirit, and physicality, and not mentally away on some alternate drama universe.
Remember – don’t spend the whole time checking your phone for emails and texts. Please don’t keep locking yourself away in a room making tense phonecalls. Please don’t keep checking to see if there’s a line fault. Most of all – don’t go expecting miracles where someone is going to deviate from their normal rule of behaviour. Don’t forget my tips on surviving Christmas.
If you’re feeling low (a lot of people do at this time of year) don’t be afraid to talk to somebody like a friend, family member or external source of support, but I would caution you on looking for an ex to do it as you’re likely to regret it. Exhaust all other avenues before you seek out an ex.
Don’t forget – even in the frustrating things, there’s something to be thankful for. Count your blessings in disguise and take care of you. Sending you lots of love and hugs, Nat xxx