Comments on: Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl Book One Available to Buy http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/ Self Esteem|Dating|Relationships|Emotional Unavailability|Commitment| Sat, 11 Feb 2012 20:27:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Astelle http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-138864 Astelle Tue, 11 Mar 2008 15:11:42 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-138864 NML, your book is fantastic, I have read it 3-4 times, did the exercises TWICE, wasn't honest with myself the first time - how bad is that? One thing I don't fully understand, is the Status Quo part, not totally sure what that means to him and do they always have to have a fallback girl or do they just move on to the next woman to repeat their game? What if you cut contact and never hear from him again, does this mean that his EUM mind told him, she "figured" out my game or I can do better than her, I better run? My EUM is 51 years old and I just can't believe that woman are all over him. I found his posts on the FREE websites ONLY, I guess he is running out of women at the bars and I hope he goes thru a very long dryspell!!! I hope your book part II is available soon and I can't wait. NML, your book is fantastic, I have read it 3-4 times, did the exercises TWICE, wasn’t honest with myself the first time – how bad is that?
One thing I don’t fully understand, is the Status Quo part, not totally sure what that means to him and do they always have to have a fallback girl or do
they just move on to the next woman to repeat their game? What if you cut contact and never hear from him again, does this mean that his EUM mind told him,
she “figured” out my game or I can do better than her, I better run?
My EUM is 51 years old and I just can’t believe that woman are all over him. I found his posts on the FREE websites ONLY, I guess he is running out of women at the bars and I hope he goes thru a very long dryspell!!!
I hope your book part II is available soon and I can’t wait.

]]> By: NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-137101 NML Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:13:29 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-137101 Ah Danielle, you've brought a very big smile to my face! You are on a path now. I would do the exercises and start preparing yourself for cutting contact. I am going to give a date for Book two on Monday... Remember he is not going to change, which means that if you want more, you'll have to. But if you're getting a bit stronger each day, that strength will gather steam. Keep remembering who he really is as opposed to who you'd like him to be. Thanks for your kind words! NML x Ah Danielle, you’ve brought a very big smile to my face! You are on a path now. I would do the exercises and start preparing yourself for cutting contact. I am going to give a date for Book two on Monday… Remember he is not going to change, which means that if you want more, you’ll have to. But if you’re getting a bit stronger each day, that strength will gather steam. Keep remembering who he really is as opposed to who you’d like him to be. Thanks for your kind words! NML x

]]> By: danielle http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-137077 danielle Thu, 06 Mar 2008 18:28:44 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-137077 NML,I bought your book last week, and just couldnt stop reading it. IT WAS GREAT!! Half the time i was sitting there saying "Oh my God thats me, and thats him!!!". It was everything that I am going through and everything I am. I think that somewhere deep down inside we know that this IS what our relationship is and who we are, its just hard to believe that WE could have fallen into such a disasterous pattern and choice in life. I think that so many of us want so bad to believe that our EUM's will change and that we will finally be worth it to them to "straighten up" and do the right thing, although it just never seems to happen. the book has opened my eyes to alot of things, prob things that I already knew, but its the comfort of hearing it and reading it from someone elses perspective that has made me realize....ITS REAL, and not only is it real but, i am not alone. i am still with (if you can even call it that) my EUM, he has totally put me last over the past few weeks and I feel very hurt and angry. Not only have I read your book but it has sunken in a little bit, although I am still maybe not ready, and i am still afraid to cut contact and let him go. i still am hoping that after he gets back from a week in daytona with the boys that he will somehow miraculously change and come around to his sences. I am getting very tired of living this vicious cycle, and am getting very resentful towards him. I have explained my story on the "how to spot EUM" page.....i would love any advice that you could give me. I am greatful for this sight and for the books that you have and are going to put out and cant wait to ready the next 2. I am getting a little stronger everyday, and hopefully will come to my sences soon. Thanks for all and please hurry with your next book!! GREAT JOB!!! xoxoxo NML,I bought your book last week, and just couldnt stop reading it. IT WAS GREAT!! Half the time i was sitting there saying “Oh my God thats me, and thats him!!!”. It was everything that I am going through and everything I am.
I think that somewhere deep down inside we know that this IS what our relationship is and who we are, its just hard to believe that WE could have fallen into such a disasterous pattern and choice in life. I think that so many of us want so bad to believe that our EUM’s will change and that we will finally be worth it to them to “straighten up” and do the right thing, although it just never seems to happen.
the book has opened my eyes to alot of things, prob things that I already knew, but its the comfort of hearing it and reading it from someone elses perspective that has made me realize….ITS REAL, and not only is it real but, i am not alone.
i am still with (if you can even call it that) my EUM, he has totally put me last over the past few weeks and I feel very hurt and angry. Not only have I read your book but it has sunken in a little bit, although I am still maybe not ready, and i am still afraid to cut contact and let him go. i still am hoping that after he gets back from a week in daytona with the boys that he will somehow miraculously change and come around to his sences. I am getting very tired of living this vicious cycle, and am getting very resentful towards him. I have explained my story on the “how to spot EUM” page…..i would love any advice that you could give me. I am greatful for this sight and for the books that you have and are going to put out and cant wait to ready the next 2. I am getting a little stronger everyday, and hopefully will come to my sences soon. Thanks for all and please hurry with your next book!! GREAT JOB!!! xoxoxo

]]> By: NML http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-135396 NML Mon, 03 Mar 2008 08:50:37 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-135396 Hi Danielle. I am hoping to launch Book Two by the end of this month at the latest, but I will announce a date by the end of this week! Glad you love it! Thank you :-) Hi Danielle. I am hoping to launch Book Two by the end of this month at the latest, but I will announce a date by the end of this week! Glad you love it! Thank you :-)

]]> By: danielle http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-135371 danielle Mon, 03 Mar 2008 08:10:57 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-135371 I have been reading this book. Love it, has very good points and insight. can anyone tell me when or where I can get the second book?? thanks I have been reading this book. Love it, has very good points and insight. can anyone tell me when or where I can get the second book?? thanks

]]> By: ananda http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-130755 ananda Sun, 24 Feb 2008 05:59:03 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-130755 hi nat. i am a big fan. will purchase the book this week and do a blog about it for womens's history month on my web site, myspace page, and blogspot.com page. congratulations. this is great. i am looking forward to reading it and sharing the news about it with folks here in the states. keep writing. keep shining. love and light, ananda hi nat. i am a big fan. will purchase the book this week and do a blog about it for womens’s history month on my web site, myspace page, and blogspot.com page. congratulations. this is great. i am looking forward to reading it and sharing the news about it with folks here in the states. keep writing. keep shining. love and light, ananda

]]> By: JohnofScribbleSheet http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-130277 JohnofScribbleSheet Fri, 22 Feb 2008 13:30:37 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-130277 Good luck with the book! Good luck with the book!

]]> By: Lauren http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-130141 Lauren Thu, 21 Feb 2008 23:08:26 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-130141 Hey you just bought your ebook!!! Thanks NML i'm excited about reading it :D Lauren x Hey you just bought your ebook!!! Thanks NML i’m excited about reading it :D

Lauren x

]]> By: Brad K. http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/comment-page-1/#comment-130133 Brad K. Thu, 21 Feb 2008 22:19:45 +0000 http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/mr-unavailable-and-the-fallback-girl-book-one-available-to-buy/#comment-130133 NML, I started reading today - page 14 so far. Thanks for bringing all of this together! NML, I started reading today – page 14 so far. Thanks for bringing all of this together!

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