Happy New Year to all of the readers of Baggage Reclaim. Thanks for your support of the blog and please keep visiting in 2007.
People will make a lot of noise about new years resolutions and rather than suggest you make some that you’ll no doubt forget by the end of the week, here are a few suggestions for making life easier and better.
1. Take life by the balls
If you’re waiting for life to come along and do everything you want whilst you sit back, you could be waiting a while.
2. Stay away from men (or women) that ‘belong’ to someone else.
Most of the time, coveting or actually carrying out a relationship with someone who is already in one with someone else, will result in tears. Yours and possibly the person who they’re cheating on. Better to be on your own with your self esteem intact rather than waiting for the few crumbs to be thrown at you.
3. Good female interaction (The Art of Sisterhood) equals good karma!
If you’re pretending to be nice when really you’re a bitch, if you’re chatting sh*t about your friends and grinning to their face, if you covet their men, sleep with their men, chase their men, belittle, and be generally negative about the women around you, you’d amazed at the impact it can have on your life. Being ruthless to other women is a skill that men subconsciously spot in you that they can inadvertently use to their advantage. Having a close circle of female friends can actually help you to avoid bad dating mistakes.
4. Be happy in your own company.
If you detest being alone, even for a few hours, or detest singledom, you make yourself a target for bad relationships. You will make misguided choices to avoid what you think is the awfulness of being alone, but you’ll choose men that you will expect to complete you which is a one way trip to misery.
5. Don’t use sex as a way to ‘get’ someone to want you more
You could shag someone 24/7 and they may still not want to be in a relationship. For some guys, they do take the attitude of ‘Why buy the cow if you can drink the milk for free?’
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I wish I had known then what I know now.