Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl Book One Available to Buy
February 21, 2008 by NML · 9 Comments
Just over two and a half years ago I stumbled across the realisation that not only did I love Mr Unavailable’s (emotionally unavailable men) but that I was a commitment-phobe that was sabotaging all of my relationships, unbeknowst to me. I started sharing my insights here and at The Mr Unavailable Guide, and I am still astounded by the number of women that are just like me.
Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl Part One is finally available to purchase. It’s my guide to emotionally unavailable men and the women that love them. I am empowering women to get smart about their faux relationships with these men and gain real positive change so that they can find personal happiness, which in turn, will lead to better relationship opportunities. This is not about trying to change him (most of us have realised that it’s nigh on impossible) and instead find out how and why Mr Unavailable behaves as he does so that you know how to read the signs and get the hell out. This is the start of embarking on path of building your self esteem so that you can get happy and open yourself up to the prospect of a healthy relationship.
Find out the types of situations that you can be drawn into by these men, get a list of his many signs of emotional unavailability, learn about how he manages down your expectations with The Status Quo through blowing hot and cold and how these men pull the whole ‘This one time in bandcamp’ thing where they trot out the same lame excuses so that we feel sympathetic to their ‘plight’ and don’t ask for too much. Discover how Mr Unavailable relegates you to ‘accidental’ booty calls or friends with benefits and why the relationship with this man is doomed. This is just the beginning…
It is £5 which is roughly $9.83 although it will tell you when you go through to checkout!
Please let me know if there are any problems downloading. This is the first time I have ever done an ebook so no doubt there will be a technical glitch or something! I will be doing a website and if there are any amendments that are made, you will automatically be sent a revised edition.
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Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl Part One Launching and Competition
February 19, 2008 by NML · 8 Comments
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It gives me great pleasure to announce that this Thursday I will be launching my first ever ebook! It’s now available to buy!I know that it has taken much longer than I anticipated but I have taken the decision to publish the book as an ebook trilogy in order to stop the wait! Thank you to all of you have been patient and the hundreds who registered by email!
What is it about? Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl is my guide to emotionally unavailable men and the women that love them. I am empowering women to get smart about their faux relationships with these men and gain real positive change so that they can find personal happiness, which in turn, will lead to better relationship opportunities.
Book One focuses on helping you understand who Mr Unavailable is, how he operates, what makes him tick, the types of situations you can find yourself in with him, why he is dangerous, and most importantly, how to spot and avoid him. It also gives an initial background to the Fallback Girl, emotional unavailability in general, and commitment-phobia.
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Breaking Up and Moving On By Cutting Contact. Part 2
February 1, 2008 by NML · 17 Comments
The No Contact Rule means that you have to go cold turkey but you put yourself in the driving seat, create your own closure, and you start to control the relationship that you have perceived as uncontrollable. It is an exit strategy and trust me, you will use the No Contact Rule if you truly want to exit a poor relationship and want to get back your sense of self.
In Part 1, I explained what the No Contact Rule is, why we avoid it, and some tips to get you started and in this post I am giving some guidance on when to apply the rule.
How do you know if you need to apply the No Contact Rule?
No contact is a pretty harsh way to cut things off but it’s increasingly needed because of the type of dating habits that both men and women are adopting. As women, we seem to love being with men that are disconnected and unavailable for relationship duty, and who can’t commit to being with us…and can’t commit to not being with us.
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