Can a Booty Call Grow Into a Relationship?

Recently I’ve been asked by several readers whether a booty call can become so much more. I must say firstly though, if you know that you’re actually a booty call, should you really be asking this question! Anyway…
Booty Call: This is when someone has the ability to flex their dialing finger and call up a [...]

A$$holes Really Do Have a Lot of Success

There are two types of men that have a lot of dating success with the ladies - emotionally unavailable men and bad boys. When it comes to the latter, it does seem that the badder, the more of an a$$hole, the better. Many women really do thrive on being treated mean and kept keen, and [...]

Mixing Money & Men

Years ago I descended to the depths of fluff brained woman when I dated a guy and ended up loaning him money that I never saw again. More than six years later, despite being very loved up with the boyf and the arrival of my new bambino, it still grates that I got suckered for [...]

‘Average’ Men Turned Upside Down

I believe that you can pretty much divide men into three camps: Nice Guys, Bad Boys and Mr Unavailable’s, but many women talk about ‘average men’, usually with disdain. Average by its very nature implies middle of the road, nothing special and to many women, it’s not a very attractive prospect. Combined with the fact [...]

How to Spot a Player (Playa)

We’ve all been there when a guy has a whiff of doggy dog about him and screams Bad Boy, yet it’s clear that not only can some women not read the signs but they don’t do anything with the knowledge. Here are 21 tips to keep you out of a player’s path or to get [...]

The Player’s Boot Camps: Camp Rejection

Askmen recently launched The Player’s Bootcamp series of articles which provides men with a series of exercises which force guys “to learn by rote, rather than by mere suggestion, the core set of traits and skills required to follow through on the Player’s advice.” The Player is a columnist who is teaching guys how to [...]

Chasing the Bad Boy: Do women thrive on drama?

When we were little girls, playing with our Barbies/Cindy’s, Action Men or even guns….I don’t think any of us looked up with our innocent little eyes and said, “Mummy, when I grow up, I want to go out with a bad boy”, yet oddly enough, many a woman has dedicated herself to the task of [...]