Drama Management Quick Tips
April 5, 2008 by NML · 15 Comments
It’s day 6 in the 30 Days of Drama Reduction series. When you feel like you are about to take a big dose of Relationship Crack and immerse yourself in the latest dramatisation starring you, it is important to become aware of what the Drama Triggers are and handle your reaction to it.
If you don’t learn how to handle and reduce, or even eliminate your Drama Seeking behaviour, you are likely to be perceived as 1) needy, 2) clingy, 3) messed up, and 4) a drama queen.
Now…even if you are with a pretty understanding, decent, emotionally available guy, those four things make you a very unattractive prospect to the average guy and they will eventually be turned off by your behaviour.
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Link Love
February 5, 2008 by NML · 2 Comments
I had no idea that reading other people’s secret confessions could be so much fun but I have become addicted to True Hook Up Confessions and True Mom Confessions. There are some baaaaad girls out there and I love it. Whatever mischief you’ve been up to, whatever naughty or even evil thoughts you’ve had, there are women out there just like you, or even thinking worse! Love it!
There’s a 35 year old man out there with no relationship experience, and he’s wondering what to tell women who ask about his past… I’m wondering what desert island he’s been on… [Advice from a Single Dating Expert]
Dating Dames ask “Are open relationships healthy?” Oh hell no!
AskMen has Ten Effective [more like defective] PickUp Lines
Have you ever heard of ‘Choreplay’ before? Yep…neither had I! [Dollymix]
The Law of Attraction - Yes we do draw in what we think we deserve… [Ask Dan and Jennifer]
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Advice: Where did I go wrong? The trap of the emotionally unavailable, inconsistent woman
December 6, 2007 by NML · 9 Comments
Craig asks: I am 37-year-old single male who decided to try Internet dating as thought it would be a great way to actually meet someone based not entirely on physical attraction. I’d only been on the site for a month when I made contact with a woman who had been unhappily married for twenty years and it had ended two years ago. We initially sent each other a couple of emails before exchanging mobile numbers.
Our first conversation lasted two hours and one of her stipulations was that she did not send text messages nor ask men out. I was comfortable with that. We talked a few more times on the phone with each chat lasting about an hour. In these chats we shared so much, which ranged from meaningful to light-hearted etc. I didn’ t phone her for three days and I received a text message where the general gist was “You are in my thoughts” and “I thought you would have phoned me”. I replied saying that I cared about her etc and would call that night, which I did and we had another long chat where she asked when we were going to meet up. I agreed to meet her on the Sunday - This was no blind date as both our photos were posted on the dating site.
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