Guest Post: You can be a ‘Nice Guy’ but I need you to keep your balls and be a ‘man’
Recently I had to travel to the US, and one particular issue kept coming up.
My travelling buddy, while really sweet and easy going, was slowly driving me insane. I thought I was going to pull my own hair out and wanted to give him a happy pill or something, just so he would be able to talk faster instead of taking 5 minutes to think of a response to anything I said! My main frustration was that this guy could not make a decision for the life of him!! He was travelling with me because he is meant to be that little bit more savvy, but honestly it would have been better travelling with a stuffed toy!
So here is the thing: This guy could not make a decision, said YES to everything that I asked him, and seemed to have no sense of opinion himself, and on top of that was a complete and utter people pleaser! I don’t know about you guys, but isn’t this something that you would find just irritating? Mind you, some of you may be thinking that it would be great to have such an easy going traveling buddy…
Stop fearing being single and the power of the magnetic smile
Hot Alpha Female writes
Being single - It’s great! I love it and you should too. Why is it that we are so scared to be alone anyway? Are we ever really alone?
I know heaps of my girlfriends that seem to be jumping from one relationship to the other and it makes me wonder when [...]
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I know I know - A lot of you may be thinking … what is Hot Alpha Female on about now?! Well let me explain because I guarantee that a lot of you have been in this situation. This post came from a realisation that I came across today. It was quite shocking actually .. [...]
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The search for a dream relationship where you find a soulmate who is exactly as you dreamed he would be and you think, act and want the same things may start out innocently, but depending on how attached you become to the search, can actually turn you commitment-phobic. After all, it’s difficult for any man [...]
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Weddings are hard work to greater and lesser extents for all people involved, but when you’re single, it takes a special type of resilience to not end up being a bit po-faced…
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1) In essence, it’s one day out of 365 and whilst I [...]
How To Curb That Sexual Infatuation
So it seems that there is a scientific reason as to why us ladies sometimes obsess over one night stands - According to the Jan issue of the UK Cosmopolitan, if and when we are lucky enough to reach orgasm, our body releases the ‘trust drug’ oxytocin which “floods your brain and persists for several [...]
7 Signs That You Need To Stop Dating For a While
1. You keep waking up the morning after first dates in either someone else’s bed or your own feeling regretful about letting him get into your pants. Either close your legs and have a sex break or quit dating all together until you’re ready to date differently.
2. You keep going out with the same types [...]
The Levels of Celibacy
A few times in your dating life, you might have to take a short break, a celibacy of sorts to re-align your ideals, heal from previous relationships, get rid of your baggage or just rest and relaxation. These are what I think the different levels of celibacy are.
Swearing off Men: This usually occurs when we’ve [...]
