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Revisited: The Justifying Zone

By On November 5, 2012 · 151 Comments

A few years back, before I delved deeper into the subjects of being afraid of making ‘mistakes’ and perceiving recognition of a date/relationship not working out as a ‘failure’, I explained the danger of putting yourself in the Justifying Zone.

This is that slippery slope that [...]

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When Someone Bails / Pulls The Slow Fade After You Say That You’re Not Ready To Sleep With Them Yet

By On October 24, 2012 · 175 Comments

While reading yet more tales of They Bailed / Started Pulling The Slow Fade After I Said I Wanted To Take My Time Before Sleeping With Him/Her, it occurred to me that the type of person who goes from super-interested to crickets / unable to be pinned down to a date [...]

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Knowing When To Fold: Bad Investments in Relationships & Seeing The Bigger Picture

By On January 26, 2010 · 24 Comments

As feedback starts coming through about my new ebook The No Contact Rule, one of the things that seems to have resonated most with readers is realising that when a relationship ends, it’s not about you being someone to reject, or that you’re a failure and that [...]

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10 Things That Make Online Dating Tricky If You Don’t Have Healthy Love Habits – Part Two

By On December 14, 2009 · 18 Comments

Following on from part one, here are five more reasons why certain love habits will create problems for you in the virtual playground that is online dating.

6) You don’t ask questions…or if you do, you ignore the answer if [...]

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