Despite ‘Good Points’, We Deal With the Consequences of People Coming as Full Packages

Despite ‘Good Points’, We Deal With the Consequences of People Coming as Full Packages

Any toxic relationship I’ve been involved in has always kept going because of my essentially cherry-picking what I wanted to remember about the person and the relationship, romantic or otherwise. While I spent most of my life feeling wounded by my father’s...
Do You Have A Circular Issue?

Do You Have A Circular Issue?

Do you ever find that you’re circling back to the same core issue(s) time and again, even though, on the surface, they seem different and even unrelated? How the hell did I wind up back here again?, you wonder. Sometimes we have an idea of what’s needed or...