Guest post: The Drama Blame Game

Guest post: The Drama Blame Game

On Day Ten of the 30 Days of Drama Reduction series, Cheekie ponders whether going down the blame route is really the best option…. So…about this here ‘drama’ thing we create for ourselves. I see a lot of comments, blogs, stories etc., about...
Guest post: No More Drama

Guest post: No More Drama

Lisa Q writes… Last week, NML posted an article detailing how we become drama seekers in the first place. Maybe we had an emotionally distant father, suffered from second best syndrome, or were raised by a Drama Seeker. I have to tell you, she scared the living...
Did I chase or scare him away?

Did I chase or scare him away?

One thing women are really good at is self-blame. When we are mistreated, the first thing we do is internalise the problem and wonder what we did to cause it. I keep wondering what I did to scare him off It must be something I did; he was so attentive at first Maybe...
Drama Management Quick Tips

Drama Management Quick Tips

It’s day 6 in the 30 Days of Drama Reduction series. When you feel like you are about to take a big dose of Relationship Crack and immerse yourself in the latest dramatisation starring you, it is important to become aware of what the Drama Triggers are and...
Drama Seeking Triggers

Drama Seeking Triggers

We’re now on Day 5 of 30 Days of Drama Reduction and today I’m going to explain Drama Seeking Triggers. On Day Two, I talked about the reasons why you could find yourself in the role of ‘Accidental’ Drama Seeker which included absent and/or...

Guest post: It’s Time To Clear The BAGGAGE!

Today on day 3 of the 30 Days of Drama Reduction series, Hot Alpha Female shares an empowering call to action… Ok I have to admit something to you guys, I was having a little trouble of thinking of something to talk to you about and while I was surfing the site,...