When should a woman have sex with a man?

Over at Advice from a Single Dating Expert, Evan tackles the age-old issue of when it’s the right time to have sex, and surmises this grey area very well. As a woman, your job is not to come up with an arbitrary number of dates, like the U.S. coming up with a...

Advice: How do I get ‘better’ at sex?

I’m 35 and have not had a sexual relationship for 6 years. Prior to that I had only had a few sexual partners, though one in my early twenties had been my partner of 3 years. In my mid twenties I explored my sexuality and had relationships with women. Since my...

Should Guys Always Pay for Dates?

It doesn’t matter that there has been some addressing of the gender balance and that by rights we should be equal because when it comes to who should pay on dates, particularly the first one, the finger is often pointed in the direction of male wallets. Guys...

Are You Too Clingy?

Clingy is a very subjective word when it comes to men, much like nagging. Around the wrong guy who may be afraid of commitment, getting too close, or having a woman so close she may find out what a dickhead he is, he is likely to perceive the most innocent of gestures...

Tips for Dating Without Drama

Don’t date if you feel cynical, jaded, or bored with dating. Doing so would just draw in people who validate and in fact, exacerbate what you already feel, plus you won’t be truly open to meeting decent, available partners with a positive outlook. If you...

The Way He Makes You Feel

‘The way you make me feel’ You really turn me on’ Michael Jackson. It’s comforting to know that the next line wasn’t ‘But it’s a shame about [insert whatever bugs you here].’ I recently sat with a woman who was lamenting...